I did it!! Today, for the first time, I approached a woman in public with the intention of asking her out on a date!
It took an incredible amount of courage because up until now, I’ve only ever asked for directions or given a small compliment.
She had a beautiful figure and blonde hair. She was walking on the left side of the mall, and I was on the right. I walked alongside her on the other side until the path to her was clear, and then I made my move.
Me: Hey, do you have a moment? Her: Yes? Me: I just saw you walking over there and had to tell you that you’re totally my type. Her: Really? You think so? Even with this pimple on my face? (she smiles) Me: Yeah, I think you’re really cute. Her: I think it’s so brave of you to approach me like this. Not many men do that these days. Me: Thanks, I’m honestly super nervous since I haven’t done this very often, but I managed to push myself this time. Her: That’s really cool and so brave of you! (she smiles again)
We had some small talk (What are you doing in town? Where are you from? How old are you? etc.)
Me: Hey, if you’re up for it, we could grab a coffee together sometime? Her: Yeah, sure. Me: Then give me your number. Her: She offered me her Snapchat instead.
I thanked her and said goodbye.
By the way, I’m 25, and she’s 33 (I thought she was 24 😄).
During the interaction and afterward, I was sweating all over. My heart was pounding like crazy, and I was shaking.
Afterward, I felt so relieved and proud of myself for going through with it.
Her positive reaction showed me just how amazing it can be when women respond well to being approached. It really opened my eyes—just a few months ago, I couldn’t have imagined doing something like this, and now I’ve actually done it.
I feel so freaking amazing right now. It’s an indescribable feeling, like I can achieve anything I want in life.
Btw it was in Germany
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