Hey guys, I have a problem and I feel liking telling someone here.
I dont know how to text. I hate texting.
Ive been meeting a lot of girls lately, at bars...and when I meet someone ,it usually goes like this: we talk, we get something to drink, talk some more for a couple of hours, have a laugh then we make out. Then its already late, she says she needs to go home, we exchange numbers and then I go home too.
I wait a couple of days to say something and I never know what to text, so the conversation gets boring really fast, even though we had a lot of fun when we met and then I simply give up and dont respond anymore. I prefer calling but it seems like most people are nowadays so uncomfortable with speaking on the phone, that no one answers the cellphone anymore and they dont really call back, this last time it went like this. she sent a text after I called with no answer: ''Hi, did you call me? =)''
and then I said: Yeah, i did. call me back later? =D
she says : can I call you tomorrow? =)
me : ok, in the evening?
she : Im meeting with my best friend then, maybe you just call and I answer if its a good time?
at this point, im already like : fuck this! call, dont call, i dont care anymore.
then i say : Nooo, I dont want to interfere. just wanted to say hello =D and see if you are doing alright, we did have a lot to drink that night haha.
she didnt reply yet.
I hate texting. Im way more confident when Im talking to someone in person, I usually can get a good read on them and see if what im saying its working or not, but on the phone.... =(
thanks for reading.
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