Only about 10% of the posts here have anything to do with Inner Game, and that really disappoints me.

What so many people here seem to misunderstand is that seduction doesn't start with your opener. It starts with your personality and how you live your life.

The irony is that this is what MOST of you are actually looking for!

It all starts and likely ends with your Inner Game. Hell, most of these issues start off as insecurities. And insecurities MOSTLY come from your lack of self-worth. Lack of self-worth usually comes from the fact that you haven't/aren't doing anything great with your life.

To BE attractive, you have to have an ATTRACTIVE life.

Would you invite someone you respect to your apartment with your with unwashed dishes on the table, bag of chips on the couch, and last week's underwear on the floor? No. The same reason why we shouldn't be asking people out if we haven't improved ourselves first. It'll just have a bad ending.

Look at your successful friends. They travel, volunteer, involve their selves with clubs/sports, are achieving a higher level of education or even have a high-paying career. While these may not be everyone's goals, they ARE attractive attributes to have. They make your life look more complete.

Sure, we can all follow the cookie-cutter-style of teaching in this subreddit, where we're told to just 'fake it til we make it', but wouldn't it be better if it WASN'T fake? If our lives were rich with opportunities that increase our self-worth and better the lives of people around us? And even if you DO get rejected or break up with your SO, your life is STILL amazing. You wouldn't be as bummed about your shortcomings. You wouldn't dwell on past inconveniences. Your life would be busy, fulfilling and successful.

Maybe it's just me, but I feel like the posts here could be SO much more useful if more posts talked about Inner Game.

Self-improvement is the KEY to getting dates/staying in a healthy relationship.

TL;DR:

Improve yourself and your life. If your life is attractive, you'll attract women easily.