Improving on game

norwegiandoggo · 2025-03-24T06:55:29+00:00

If you have zero interest in them at all - then don't go. But if you're curious, then definitely give them a shot if they show interest. Getting first-hand experience at going on dates is crucial to improve. The more you can go on first dates the better. If you don't like them after the first date, that's fine, almost no-one gets hurt from that. It's just a first date after all. It's supposed to be approached with no expectations and the main goal is to just have fun and test the connection.

LucaCoco_ · 2025-03-24T06:36:20+00:00

You can do this to focus on learning mechanics of game. But at the same time you need to get more comfterble with "hotter" more intimidaiting girls.

StrikingImportance39 · 2025-03-24T06:36:42+00:00

Better is to go for those u like.

You will get way more out of it.

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-03-24T11:17:52+00:00

Most attraction is not either 0 or 100.

If you are not fully attracted to them but it’s like 75% or above then go for it. I always ask myself “can I see myself going out with her?” If it’s not an immediate yes, then I’d skip.

Maybe by the time you’re getting to know them better the level of attraction will increase, who knows.

lubwn · 2025-03-24T13:55:18+00:00

Yes I did. Had 50/50 interest and while I think I have now good friend in her she is expecting (and even verbally convincing me) to have a relationship with her long term. It crushes me a bit because I grew rather fond of her but apart from physical attraction I do not feel like I would like to date her long term.

So it is a good practice but at some point you have to decide. Also it is way easier to pull the girl you do not like that much since you are just yourself and not clingy on the outcome.

ExtraordinaryBeetles · 2025-03-24T16:50:30+00:00

This is such a common question and it makes perfect sense.

There are some girls I would go to 3rd base with that I wouldn't have sex with. And there are girls that look at you the same way.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-03-27T02:33:07+00:00

Looks are just a starting point. Don't use or manipulate people just to sleep with them. Talk to women and brush up on your social skills and ability to improv. Don't use canned material. Be a curious person and ask genuine questions to get them talking. Be a good listener and use conversation threads as a loose guide for direction. Don't be a blabbermouth; allow space for back and forth convo. Get to know them beyond their appearance. Don't overthink it too much and interact with them with the same confidence you have while talking to friends.

Plastic_Friendship55 · 2025-03-28T05:13:23+00:00

Sure it happens. Sometimes I say yes to a date when a women approaches me, even though it’s not a woman I would consider approaching. It’s great experience and very healthy to get out of your comfort zone. And often you’d be surprised when you get to know them a little. Sometimes it’s a disaster but that is also experience and something you can learn from.

Title	Improving on game
Author	Smooth_Letterhead_62
Upvotes	4
Comments	15
Date	March 24, 2025 5:51 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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