Is making her interested really a thing ?

norwegiandoggo · 2024-08-05T13:49:51+00:00

To a large degree it's true. But there are no absolutes in seduction. Game is more about not fucking it up when she's already somewhat attracted to you.

Game is not primarily about "making someone specific interested". It's about

How to become a more attractive person so more women are interested in general.
How and when to shoot your shot and escalate.
Noticing when someone is interested.
Shooting your shot more often.
Learning from mistakes when you mess it up.
Mental reframing / inner game to become more confident, attractive, and happy

Game / seduction is NOT about obsessing over a single woman you want to convert from "not liking you" to "liking you". That's usually a waste of time.

There's very little you can do to increase someone's interest in you. But there's a LOT you can do to decrease their interest in you. Mistakes are punished much harsher than positive interactions are rewarded.

epimpstyle · 2024-08-05T19:27:51+00:00

Well... if you're oversimplifying the whole seduction thing, then you're right, but actually is not that simple. It's possible that if the girl likes you on some level, you do so many stupid things that she changes her mind. For example, it is very easy to slip from being confident to being arrogant (you won't know when too much is too much).

On the other hand, it is possible that you start talking to the girl about some random things and she sees that you are friendly/funny/interesting/cool and all these things will make her want to see you again. She may not like you physically, but she will like your attitude, your charisma, your jokes (so all you need is a chance to talk with her)

RawBee-wasabi · 2024-08-05T14:15:20+00:00

Well, yes you can make someone who is not interested become so.

It does require you to do things that she finds interesting. Also, do things that she finds attractive

BUT!! This is still not a guarantee

Leewaak · 2024-08-05T14:18:51+00:00

To keep it real with you, from the hundreds and hundreds of approaches i’ve made throughout the years, i only ever escalated to dates/relationships with girls that seemed interested and open for a talk from the jump, or even those that do respond and do consistently, if they were doing so with short sentence responses or one word responses, i couldn’t close, so yeah for the most part i agree but there are no absolutes, plus interested doesn’t particularly mean interested in you, she’s interested in a talk at that moment or interested in meeting a new guy at that time.

DaygameCode · 2024-08-05T18:07:55+00:00

The problem is a girl being interested initially doesn’t mean she is sold on you already to seal the deal with sex or romantic relationship, no matter what you do or say. You still have to make sure to get her in the mood, be fun, get her aroused and connect with her. And making sure you don’t fumble.

Without game girls who are interested in you can easily lose interest in you.

Girls mechanism of attraction isn’t an on/off switch like guys. It’s more like a wheel of volume. Sometimes they are more interested sometimes less and whether the volume increases towards mor interests depend on your ability to make girls feel strong positive emotions with you.

So it’s not about forcing a girl who is an absolute no about you to become interested. It’s about making sure that when you get your food in the door at the beggining, you don’t lose girls who are not fully sure about you but would be open to have something with you as long as you make a big impression on them.

zebekias · 2024-08-06T00:04:50+00:00

While you can’t change the mind of a girl that categorized you as a NO, you will be in the MAYBE category most of the time, with varying degrees of maybeness.

I was once told “I never thought I’d be with you in a million years”. Just by virtue of being out there gaming, even some of those low probability maybes will inevitably convert. Do you really convince the girl, or the universe throws her your way by the law of averages? Who knows. Call it “making her interested” or “being out there trying”, success is (eventually) achieved when you go out to chase your dreams.

IamWisdom · 2024-08-06T00:37:51+00:00

theasianplayboy · 2024-08-07T21:25:32+00:00

I’m a 5’5 unattractive Asian girl. I am no woman’s romantic archetype.

But in 20 years of game, I’ve learned that while I can’t change a woman’s mind, I CAN CHANGE HER MOOD.

It’s about breaking her heuristic thinking (assuming you’re not her type) and making her emotionally and physically evaluating you in a romantic way.

The_Free_Mannn · 2024-08-08T00:01:00+00:00

If there is interest, then you can get her. If there is no interest, then she won’t engage with you. High interest girls are the best though, they make everything easy.

aFalseSlimShady · 2024-08-05T14:31:53+00:00

If you could, it would be a waste of time.

It won't work for cold approach. Either she's interested or she's not, and you won't change that.

For long game with a girl you know, it's just going to end up with you getting your little feelings hurt once another guy comes along who actually sparks something in her.

Title	Is making her interested really a thing ?
Author	Lucky_Iuke
Upvotes	12
Comments	10
Date	August 5, 2024 1:21 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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