Is there really a "league" factor when it comes to approach and pursuit?

ToxicRocketry · 2017-07-25T23:02:32+00:00

No.

Everyone has different preferences.

One woman's trash is another woman's treasure.

essexaspie · 2017-07-25T21:04:05+00:00

I'm trying to break out of this at the moment. In the context you describe 'league' almost always means 'physical attractiveness'

I try hard to tell myself that girls don't care about looks, but evidence to the contrary is shoved in my face on a fairly regular basis. It's tough going. I try too avoid sites where people don't believe in 'game' as I find it hurts my mental health. The goodlookingloser forum for one. I found certain threads kind of depressing.

I'm very aware that i'm not remotely 'good looking' facially, and so when I see a hot girl, I instinctively think ''well, she's out of my league!!'' - However, I still approach as I'd rather the horrible feeling of rejection than thinking 'what if she'd actually have liked me!!?'' (not that I still don't pussy out sometimes, of course!! :))

If I could only get even 1 or 2 hot girls interested in me, i'd have a genuine belief system to build upon. I'm just gonna keep approaching and hpoefully it's happen before im' 60! (I' written a few FR's here!)

Kenic_In_MD · 2017-07-25T22:44:38+00:00

The only leagues are the ones you create.

gatwickboi · 2017-07-25T22:13:01+00:00

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Telemorpheus · 2017-07-25T22:52:07+00:00

I'd say this is a concept that some people go by and not so much others. Put it like this; if I'm a hot guy/gal and someone I don't find attractive hits on me and I turn them down is that a league? If I can get really hot partners why would I go for one that's less hot? On the other hand, some people value personally and conversational flow much more than beauty. You see lots of really hot girls with ugly dudes and vice versa. For them, they value the person much more so than the body. There's also success league. If I've worked really hard to be good at something and someone approaches and they haven't put forth the time and effort to be good something I might be less inclined to want to date them.

In short, some people some times have leagues and other times not so much.

IntrovertSigma · 2017-07-25T21:55:09+00:00

Forget about this concept. It has no value.

savagesteve_13 · 2017-07-26T00:31:00+00:00

After seeing the guy my sister married, I am pretty sure leagues don't exist. I have no idea why she was attracted to THAT.

Title	Is there really a "league" factor when it comes to approach and pursuit?
Author	Kakeshihayabusa221
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	July 25, 2017 8:52 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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