It's a Numbers Game

nonsass · 2018-05-02T23:10:46+00:00

I never knew he had so much game!!

Solid, Mark Manson style game. Direct and making his intent clear.

Boomhauer should run bootcamps!

redmanifesto · 2018-05-02T22:26:48+00:00

This is what it looks like when I introduce some friends into pickup.

jewfro667 · 2018-05-03T00:43:41+00:00

I always laugh when I hear Boomhauer talk.

“How bout a size Boom baby?”

Kenic_In_MD · 2018-05-03T00:58:21+00:00

This needs to be pinned this is damn near exactly how it works. I love how ol' Boomhauer never ejected

R41nmaker · 2018-05-02T23:47:34+00:00

Damn. Boomhauer getting blown out of sets but eventually gets the digits.

ResidentCut · 2018-05-02T22:00:42+00:00

lol, this was me on Tuesday night, only I didn't stumble upon any 'yes girls' unfortunately! haha

Good vid, though. That's what game is about

hunterpua · 2018-05-03T18:23:27+00:00

This is what it looks like in the beginning but with proper education and proper technique you can flip the percentage so that you can potentially only get rejected once in 23 attempts.

One large mistake that guys who do cold approach make is having a bias to the difficult. Or they somehow feel guilt or feel like its cheating when cold approach becomes easy.

For example, looking for signs that a girl is attracted or at least open to having a conversation before you approach. Or tailoring your approach so its designed to add the most value possible. Or creating social proof/pre-selection and leveraging that to warm up other women...like getting a girl to introduce you to her friend. *gasp!*

I know many guys who would say that last one doesn't count as a good approach even if you end up having sex with the girl you get introduced to and that you shouldn't want to do that kind of thing often because you don't really learn how to meet women that way.

It all stems from a lack of clarity of intent.

Anyone who likes to do direct game has heard of this term. But Clarity of Intent as taught in the game is taught in a very shallow way.

It goes something like this: When you meet a girl a lot of thoughts flow through your head. You not only feel attraction for her, you're also nervous, thinking of what to say, doubting yourself...and about 50 other things. But when you are clear in your intent you declutter your mind so that you're focused on only one thing, your intent. By having extreme clarity you feel no nervousness, you're 100% confident, and that intent gets communicated to the woman to such a strong intent that you can turn her on simply with your eye contact.

I have to admit, that's awesome and a lot of guys need to be more clear in their intents with women because communicating with a decluttered mind is a more effective way to do it.

BUT....

A lot of guys are extremely clear in their intent with women but very unclear in their intent with life.

Have you ever tried to work out the exact reason why you're in the game to begin with? Is it really to become a Pick Up Artist? Is it about being able to prove that you can see a girl in the most impossible situation ever and have the ability to get her? Is it about having the skill to meet a girl and have sex with her within 20 minutes of meeting her? Is it about proving to guys that you are great?

I don't know about you guys but I'm in the game so that I can make it so that I can have sex on demand any time I want it.

Most of us want something similar to that. We want choice, we want to get the kind of girls we want, we want to find a girlfriend. That is your Intent. If you are truly clear with that then you would feel no guilt from creating situations where you'd get introduced. You'd feel no guilt for creating situations where you already come in as higher value than them. You feel no guilt for approaching girls that already make it easy for you because they give you signs because you are no longer concerned with the process as long as it leads to the outcome that you want.

So why force yourself into difficult situations and limit your thinking to viewing an effective cold approach as something where you just go in with no prior knowledge of the situation and making things happen from there? Why not change your definition of cold approach into "The easiest way possible to walk up to a girl I don't know to get her attracted to me and want to have sex with me"?

Guys I'm telling you, you're missing tons of opportunities and causing yourselves tons of unnecessary pain by putting "Game" in a box. Game should be whatever it needs to be to get you the outcome you want as easily and as quickly as possible.

adventureman91 · 2018-05-03T20:30:51+00:00

yep... he always takes two spots

IllStep · 2018-05-03T08:32:19+00:00

This is what confuses me when people say 'Just lean game, bro!!'' as if there is something that actually takes 'learning' lol. Like, everyone here is saying BoomHauer is running good game here, but this can be 'learnt' by a 6 year old in about 12 seconds lol.

Title	It's a Numbers Game
Author	AceSammy
Upvotes	103
Comments	19
Date	May 2, 2018 8:37 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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