Strange title but it's something I've been thinking about. For me seduction/PUA is not about girls, it's about social interaction. If you're good at social interaction then being good with girls will come with that. But if you're social interaction is shit, no amount of PUA training/hotseat/whatever will make you good at picking up girls because your core is not there.

When guys ask me how they can become better with girls, I tell them that getting good with girls is the third step. The first step is looking back at yourself and improving yourself, the second is going out and nailing down social interaction, and the third is doing #2 with girls.

When I first came here I like many guys were looking for a shortcut to get laid but what I found out is improving ones seduction is just a tiny part of this massive lifestyle change that will make you a better person.

So for any guys who are new here that are reading this. No this sub won't magically make you good with girls, no watching a couple of RSD videos won't make you a PUA King. What it will do is open your eyes to the bigger picture and the bigger problem and if you're willing to commit to working on that bigger problem then shit, picking up girls will be just a fraction of what you will be able to accomplish.