(29m)) Growing up as a teenager I was always self conscious about how I looked but I really worked on myself to the point I’m not self conscious about how I look but because I grew up feeling ugly I never learned the skill of trying to seduce women because I just assumed they wouldn’t like me. These days if I go out in public I always see girls checking me out and have been told by multiple women I’m a good looking man. The problem is I know I’ve glowed up majorly, I get these signs from women but I never do anything about it, I just keep a straight poker face. If I had to describe it I almost get validation knowing these women check me out but I’m too pussy to approach them so I’m just satisfied with them stealing glances, I don’t want to be rejected, I’m worried I’ll look like an idiot stumbling on my words. Funny enough I do not have this problem talking to other men at all, I can hold a conversation well and can make friends easily, this is mainly because I’m in the construction industry so I’m around a lot of other men. When it comes to women I can talk to them in a social setting especially if I kind of know them from a mutual friend, but approaching a women in public that has given me a look is petrifying to me. I’ve had girls literally turn their heads at the table to steal glances at me
multiple times and I still didn’t do anything about it. Like i said despite meeting new women I’m a very confident and capable person. Part of me feels like I don’t immerse myself in seduction enough, i lose motivation quick or i get side tracked by whatever I’m doing in the moment. How do I grow some balls and just start talking to women i see on the street randomly.
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