Jacking off before some interaction

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-05-29T22:32:47+00:00

People spend too much time thinking about what their dick is supposed to do before and after all this sex they're not getting.

welcome2dc · 2012-05-29T21:28:27+00:00

Roosh V recommends against it and I agree. You need to exude masculinity and women need to sense you're a sexual being, not a neutered guy. Sexual chemistry and tension is far more palpable when you've got stocked libido.

There's Something About Mary is BS. Don't do it.

Murmaider · 2012-05-29T20:17:06+00:00

I have found it to be pretty destructive to my game. But then again, it did help me when i was starting to catch oneitis.

DJVendetta · 2012-05-29T20:52:20+00:00

/r/nofap

puaCurveBall · 2012-05-29T19:38:44+00:00

I'm dating 5 women, I need every ounce of libido I can muster... :)

However, I did do this when I was mostly single, partly because I didn't want to make any bad decisions just because I was horny.

If your primarily goal is to just get sex with anyone regardless of quality, then I'd say you should refrain so you have more urge and you'll be more sexual.

mariodood · 2012-05-29T19:41:25+00:00

There's a trade-off to it. I know that sometimes I'll get emotional if I feel like I have a chance of having sex with some girl I'm about to hang out with, and it helps.

Too much masturbation can make you lazy, though. Use it to motivate yourself, like..you can't jack off today unless you go out there and do approaches

HumanSockPuppet · 2012-05-29T20:16:36+00:00

Do you find it makes you more relaxed and less focused on sex, allowing you to interact on a more human level...

Whence comes this assumption that sex is not a human act?

If you're horny, act on your desire to fuck. If you're bored, act on your desire for some mental stimulation. Both are perfectly good ways to spend your time, so long as it's what you want to be doing.

4FF41R · 2012-05-29T20:08:53+00:00

When your libido on a scale 1 to 10 is 12 or more, it will make your mind blind, and your brain mush; so DO IT.

Otherwise, with time, learn to channel that energy into being fun, and bigger then life.

dolony · 2012-05-29T23:31:09+00:00

When I've gotten back to a girl's apartment and have a good chance at the bang, I've found it helpful to quickly jack off in her bathroom before we get hot and heavy. This is usually when my balls are heavy and I haven't had sex for a week or more. I find I last longer on round 2+ after the first nut. Also, I think more clearly (though less sexually) after nutting, which I think helps in the bedroom after all the seduction has happened.

Bobsutan · 2012-05-30T00:34:44+00:00

Contrary to what was said in Something about Mary, eliminating any sexual energy you've got is a bad thing. Pent up sexuality, properly channeled, is powerful stuff and can be the difference from a bland date to really turning up the heat.

AlphaSquirel · 2012-05-31T16:52:03+00:00

Never leave home with a loaded gun.

reino341 · 2012-05-29T20:16:06+00:00

if I fapped right before going out I might not be able to push myself to f-close even if it was the best decision in long term to push the envelope and try to get a girl home instead of a number that is likely to flake

personally I don't really fap anymore, it's bad for libido and T levels I hear

Chollly · 2012-05-30T22:16:38+00:00

The worst idea I've ever heard.

jewiger · 2012-05-30T01:14:08+00:00

Makes no difference whatsoever. Nofap is the dumbest thing I have ever heard of and I think it is crazy that some people think it helps their game. Fap or no fap before an interaction - doesn't matter. You are the one who determines the outcome.

2012-05-30T01:03:34+00:00

http://reddit.com/r/NoFap case closed.

Title	Jacking off before some interaction
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	12
Comments	24
Date	May 29, 2012 7:23 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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