Learning game when I have ASD (Austism Spectrum Disorder)?

SirChodicus · 2020-06-29T20:29:10+00:00

1) This is the number 1 rule of game. There are no excuses for hitting on that hot chick in those nice gym shorts. You could be in a wheelchair, have no limbs, have a speech impediment, be short and still get girls. If you don't believe me watch this simple pickup video where they pick up girls in wheel chairs ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QUZuNPv-FTY ). As far as autism goes, RSD tyler had autism (not sure what type) and wasn't able to read social cues; he's now a social savant. (Note: I'm not going to act like appearance doesn't matter. Some girls will be turned off if you are in a wheelchair and there is nothing you can do about that. You just have to hope the girl isn't so shallow that she would reject you purely based on your disabilities )

2) Techniques are good as they demonstrate higher value. But if you aren't a high value man, it's not congruent and it gives you a weird character. Just imagine a meth addict trying to neg. On the other side of the coin, you can use 100% techniques and lines in order to fake your identity completely. And as to which techniques are best, Mystery's stuff is a good starting point (haven't looked into it much tho).

3) You can play the game anyway you want. Although it is harder to demonstrate that you are high value when you don't talk as much, it is possible and it gives you the sort of 'strong and silent' type of vibe, which girls dig. Being introverted in social interactions is more advanced, for a beginner, I would focus on being extroverted in order to give you communication skills that you can use at any time.

4) Personally, I don't use them. If the girl is willing to cheat on her boyfriend with you, imagine how she will treat you later on. But they do work and you can learn how to use them - in the long run though, it's not worth it (you don't want some angry macho man coming after you because you smashed his girl).

-Sir Chodicus

decapitate_the_rich · 2020-06-30T01:27:25+00:00

I have autism too, and desperately hope to one day learn how to talk to women (I'm so old its probably too late) but the one thing I have to say is don't waste your money on The Game. I found that book to be absolutely insufferable and couldn't even get halfway through, the only takeaway I got from it is that I can't be myself and have to pay a bunch of money on shit like weird clothes and magician classes and bullshit to do tricks like a monkey to hopefully impress women. I dunno, maybe I missed something.

Typical_Connection · 2020-06-29T22:50:27+00:00

The one advantage you have is your ability to not give a fuck about social faux paus. It may seem like a disadvantage when you feel awkward, but trust me, leverage it right, it will be an advantage.

ChelseaDagger14 · 2020-06-30T00:21:11+00:00

1) I probably have autism too, so I guess so but obviously there are other variables beyond social skills so YMMV. Tbh I suspect PUA is to an extent targeted at autistic guys. A lot of the courses are for intelligent successful people that have struggles socially.

2) I don’t believe the method you initially use matters, once you start using something you’ll be able to build it into something that fits your natural personality better. Just whatever you like the look of you should use.

3) Being extroverted isn’t necessary but it helps, women like confidence. You don’t need to be the centre of social settings.

4) Some girls just won’t date you, and that number is substantially higher with girls with bf’s. I would say that boyfriend destroyers are probably bullshit. If a girl says she has a boyfriend in 99% of cases it means “fuck off” so you’re better off going with more receptive girls“.

JasonCapitalDating · 2020-06-30T04:33:36+00:00

From my experience,I'll tell you please don't use MM. It's actually designed for extroverted people to use in night club settings. I'd seen people use the 3-second rule in college or peacocking in day time which is stupid.

My recommendation is to develop your social skills first. You can look up the best books for autism/social skills. Develop your social intuition. Expand your social circle. Have some female friends. Become a social person. (You don't need to be a party guy. Are you able to make small talk with strangers wherever you go? ) Then and only then you should start learning the game. If you start learning the game before that, believe me, the game will fuck you up. Without the ability to read social signals you can't execute the techniques well. It will come off as wired. Like David Tian said, "Those who only talk with girls are creeps".

mr_Tobbor · 2020-06-29T20:45:22+00:00

Ask your therapist man. It's not safe to be here. Every body says what they want.

hostilecub · 2020-06-30T01:40:45+00:00

Personal opinion.

I think you definitely can learn game. Example being I used to be a natural and did alright with women. Once I learned a pick up system (I read the Tao of Badass - you can find a free pdf copy online) I started to do a lot better.

I used to do things because It felt like the right next step. Now I logically think through each stage of attraction as I’m gaming a girl.

What’s nice about being a little autistic (maybe) is you don’t have bad habits. You can be more technical in your approach and after practice do really well. It took me along time to figure out and trust the system because it didn’t feel as natural to me.

Idk if that makes sense. I hope that helps man. Good luck.

7Saturn7Saturn7 · 2020-06-30T02:19:45+00:00

Yes
The good part of all methods describe the same thing, it is that thing you want to study, not the methods.
Being extraverted in a colloquial sense isn't. Being extraverted in a scientific sense means being more motivated by the potential for positive experience rather than avoiding bad experience. Since novel social situations have high potential for positive and negative experience extraverted people tend to be more social. I would say that for pickup you do need to be more motivated by the upside than you are to avoid the downside.
The truth is you'll be destroying boyfriends anyways if you meet with any degree of success. There are a lot of degrees of boyfriendness, and it's basically a guarantee that every young woman has someone they could call boyfriend regardless of what the relationship actually looks like. Back on topic I feel like those lines are lame since if you were doing well you wouldn't have heard about a boyfriend anyways. It can be worth it if things were going swimmingly prior and you have a big time investment to just continue the set for a few minutes as if she hadn't said anything and see if her actions match her words.

TiberZurg · 2020-06-30T15:03:09+00:00

You should try daily broccoli sprouts! They may reduce your ASD symptoms a lot!

raulsjl12 · 2020-07-01T04:56:14+00:00

[I have actually managed to attract girls a few times but mainly based on my looks (which I would say are pretty good to say the least)]

By this I mean like I am quite successful on gaining likes on Tinder or even catching stranger girl's eyes around at times but when it comes to actually talking on Tinder they just never answer even my first text and in real life no girl who lives close enough to me shows any interest. I certainly don't think that looks don't matter but they are far from being everything as my experience tells me lol (and the girl I like that I mentioned even got attracted to me in the first place mainly because of my looks and the same goes to pretty much any girl who ever showed any interest).

Tongue37 · 2020-07-02T20:16:27+00:00

I'm in a very similar situation as you OP.. I'm semi aspergers and schizoid with high degree of introversion ..this basically means I don't like socializing very much, have low low social battery, low motivation and I simply don't feel as strongly as others in terms of empathy, love, devotion etc etc

Not to brag but I consider myself to be a good looking guy..I've had girls, some that were pretty hot, approach me in bars and such and many have said I look like Matt Damon or Mark Wahlberg.. I stay in good shape physically too so that helps a lot. I'm socially crippled almost though in various way but I'll try to answer your questions

1-I do think someone with high functioning autism can have success in terms of pick up especially if they are good looking to start.. Imo they won't have great success though do to the social limitations that aspergers produces. I mean, I know in my situation, the thought of going out multiple times a week for hours at a time and sleeping with multiple women just isn't going to happen. The idea of having 4-5 girls that I'm talking to at any given time is just way too much to handle in terms of social overload.. You may have better social stamina than me though...?

2-I honestly can't answer this as I've not used either but instead use the basic broad principles of pick up..

3-hmm I'm very introverted and while my aloofness can make me come off as mysterious and thus appealing to women, I'm very limited by low social drive and low social battery. This means I'm simply not a very social guy, I prefer to stay home by myself rather than go out. I despise small talk and hate talking on the phone and most women seem to love doing this so this has been a problem for me. I generally have found it very difficult to "keep up socially" with most women.. For example, if I go out with them on a Friday night for 2-3 hours, I do not have any desire or need to see them for 3-4 days and conversations during this period must be limited unless they are important in some way. Many girls after a fun Friday out though were immediately making plans to hang out the next day and I did try to force myself out on numerous occasions, it just ended up completely draining me . I've tried to tell women about my introversion and to get them to understand that even though I do like them, I don't have the need to see or talk to them that often ..obviously many women are not able to understand this as they feel if I like them I should want to be with them all the time.. So a Though I do think some introverts can be successful in seduction, there's no way they can be as successful as extroverts ..

4-no clue what that means lol

Title	Learning game when I have ASD (Austism Spectrum Disorder)?
Author	raulsjl12
Upvotes	14
Comments	23
Date	June 29, 2020 7:59 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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