LR – HB DRESSED-TO-KILL

This LR should point out some good stuff especially for the beginners and intermediates out there, since it describes step-by-step how I pulled from the club and includes a detailed breakdown of what happened:

I’m out with my wing in Beijing and do some approaches at one of the hotter clubs called Vics. We’ve been night-gaming for a few nights in a row, and I’m just starting out gaming again after a long lull due to my situation at work which is a cause for major down-time. Anyway.

… I open a few sets. Then in the distance I see an incredibly cute girl (HB8) dressed to kill in a very low-cut and short white dress with an astonishing amount of bosom, who’s dancing alone. She looks somewhat like a Chinese version of the British actress Zuleikha Robinson from ‘Lost’ and ‘Rome’.

I walk up to her, stand next to her, and mirror her body language. She laughs. I start BT-spiking and she laughs again, but still stands with her side towards me. I plow some memorized BT-spíkes such as arm-wrestling, thumb-wrestling and verbal ones. She asks me a few questions, but still has her side towards me. Notice that she does not just walk away, even though she’s not that on at the moment.

Finally, I move in, gently put my hands on her shoulders and then turn her around, so she faces me. She opens up visibly after this display of dominance and leadership. This tells me that I can probably bounce her now, since she’s starting to comply.

I dance / BT-spike for a little longer (most of the Buying Temperature spikes are memorized non-verbal routines that revolve around hand-games and mimicking emotions), and then I move her to a place where we can talk in one of the hallways of the venue. I lock-in against the wall, later move to grab some chairs with her. She says she’s waiting for her friends to come (here I am checking for her logistics to avoid nasty surprises), but later says they won’t show up, I never did see her use her cell to contact them, so I’m thinking she was out alone and hence might be out to hook up.

Here’s where it gets interesting. It’s really difficult to have a real conversation with her because of the language barrier and the loud music, I miss at getting into proper qualification, and I notice how many of my BT-spikes are falling flat with her not laughing, yet she’s complying and kinoing back (the compliance beats everything else).

At this point my wing has been texting me and is impatient to go to another venue and wants me to come with him. My girl seems annoyed that I’m going to leave, and I realize it will probably be a fuck-up to leave her right then and there. I talk to my wing about it, and fortunately a friend of his has arrived at the other venue. The cavalry came right on time, for a change!

He leaves, and I’m back in some difficult conversation. Seeing how I got the compliance my answer to the difficult conversation is to bounce her to the dance floor. She takes my hand and leads me there. Notice that – she is leading ME on to the dance floor, and that speaks volumes of where I am in the sarge.

She’s so hot that everybody is looking at us. We’re dancing, but not dancing close, she is not smiling that much, I am pretty confused actually, yet I got the kino and I got the compliance. And then I do enjoy how she keeps pulling up her dress around her breasts, since it keeps sliding down as she dances!

I know I must progress things even further; I had earlier seeded and time-bridged going to the secret bar, Fubar, which is hidden behind a hot dog stand, with her. It’s too far from our current venue and I am not sure if it’s open or not, so I bounce her outside, start walking towards a new club, thinking that if everything else fails, I’ll take her there. We enter, have a glass of juice, and some more difficult conversation follows. Just too loud. After 20 minutes I suggest we leave, because it’s too loud.

Outside with her, I say “let’s go and have a look at my travel pictures from HongKong”, which I had seeded earlier. She starts objecting, when she asks if they are at my place, and I say they are; I then hastily add, that I got this great cup of Danish tea with small apple pieces in it that I bought the last time I was home that she just HAS to try. That settles the issue, and we grab a cab to my place.

There notice that, how by seeding ideas, I am creating plausible deniability for her to make it easier to go home with me: “We were only going to have tea… the sex part just… happened!” The seeds are of course stuff I have thought up earlier for this purpose. Blame the game, not the player.

As we’re looking for the cab she starts babbling and talking like a rapid-fire machine gun in Chinese about world history, the expansion of Rome, and the wars of Genghis Khan on the entire way back to my place, even at my place. I’m impressed since I also love history, and I qualify her on… On the cab ride she is basically handling the comfort conversation to avoid any potentially awkwardness that would arise since we’re two strangers heading to a private place to bang out. This is usually MY part at this point, but her doing it is also a good sign.

At my place she first finds a picture of Genghis Khan on the internet…. then I show her some travel pictures. Still not sure if she’s on for some action even though I got the compliance. When I start to escalate by kinoing and smelling her, and pulling her in towards me, then pushing her away lightly, then pulling her back in, she says it’s late, she’s tired, and what about that tea.

So I go and boil water, we then compare heights (another one I’ve learned from experience which makes us stand close), then I reinitiate the escalation by smelling her hair, neck, and then I gradually start to kiss her neck. She pulls a blanket over us to get warm, and underneath the blanket I escalate towards sex. She asks me to turn off the lights, I put on a condom, and then we share the full-close.

She stays over, and the next morning we’re both much more relaxed, since we can actually have some real talking. And she’s so cute that I can’t take my eyes away from her : )

REALIZATIONS:

  • as long as girls comply and accept your kino, you can still get them by progressing logistically, even though they don’t seem to buy into all of your BT-spikes.

  • the girl could have walked away from me or waved me off if she was not interested at all, but yet she stayed. That is key!

  • Having fun greatly reduces AA!

THINGS I DID WELL:

  • I had fun. That greatly reduces AA!

  • I correctly identified a situation where, by recognizing the girl’s logistics (apparently out alone), that she was probably DTF, and drove the interaction forward in spite of the fact that the conversation was not all that great and that she did not take all of my BT spikes.

  • I lead, I was dominant, I kinoed well, I plowed well even though she initially was not that open.

  • I bounced several different places.

  • I planted proper seeds and time-bridged.

  • First time in my life that I have successfully approached a girl I was genuinely attracted to in a club and then closed things out with.

THINGS TO IMPROVE:

  • getting properly into qualification and staying there longer with some of the other sets and my Hot Babe.

  • I failed to have a clear idea of the logistics at at the venue and bounced her to places where we couldn’t sit.

  • I failed to have a clear idea of what other bar I could bounce her to, before I left with her.