“I don’t want to” / “This is going too fast” / “No, don’t” / “You’re a bad man!” / “I’m tired, I want to sleep” / “You’re tired, YOU want to sleep”. I had all of those flung at me last night.

Ah, token resistance. Can be difficult to interpret correctly for newbies. Had me doubting myself there for a few seconds too.

She continually put up verbal resistance of the kind as noted above.

Signs to look for that she is inviting you on:

  1. Did she say that she probably can’t get home tonight because she arrived late, and thus has to figur-e out where to sleep?

  2. Did she unbotton her trousers (even though she herself fought any advance towards her groin just a moment ago)? – Token resistance.

  3. Did she let you remove her trousers (resisted a little bit, did she?) – Then it’s token resistance.

  4. Was she telling you “no, this is going too fast / you should go to sleep”, and then to your surprise she was smiles when you catch yourself looking at her? – Then it’s token resistance.

  5. Is she freaking out and hiding her face in her hands when you finally get her panties off? – Then it’s NOT token resistance (so don’t be a dick, but wait, comfort her and kiss her).

  6. Did she tell you afterwards in wonder “I had the feeling that sometimes you were in my head and knew exactly what I was thinking”? Then it… ‘smells like… victory…’

You get the point. If she puts up verbal resistance but is otherwise complying to your advances and letting you lead her on, you should be on safe ground. Basically, she is putting up token resistance to not appear too easy, but at the same time it’s one last test to see if you’re man enough to take her.

Since my girl yesterday WAS putting up a little resistance, not all of it being token, I moved two steps forward and one step backwards. The one step back is there for maintaining and solidifying her comfort levels. In other words, yes, so I got off her panties, but no, I did not go commando on her… right away.

And finally the bad man’s notice - if a girl really starts to put up a fight, stop immediately! (or you’ll end up in jail where you can be sure your inmates won’t respect YOUR ‘token’ resistance either, Bozo!)