Ive had a vague date planned with a girl who asked me out for the said dinner date. She wanted to cook for me and of course I was very fine with that. I texted her to set the precise date and she said she would come back to me later that week. Nothing. Then a few days later she randomly texts me and we converse, again she practically asks me out and again I try to set a date but the same happens. Havent had a response since tuesday. Now, do I do what Mark Manson says and ask her whether she actually wants to, and that its fine if she doesnt, or is that too overbearing for someone you dont know very well yet? A good friend of mine who is good with women told me it would be better to just ignore her, but that goes against what I believe Mark Manson explained, hence my question here.