I learned a skill that I call Micro Esculation from your boy Richard La Ruina. The concept is simple. If you only go up one level at a time, then each time you initiate a higher level of kino, it won't seem weird in comparison to the last time you touched her. You want to esculate kino one small step at a time so that you don't set off any of the girls "alarms". Escalate kino on a scale from 1 to 10 in increments of 1. Examples of each level...

  1. high five, back of the hand touch
  2. hand on shoulder,
  3. hugs
  4. Touching her arms, arm link
  5. hand holding
  6. leg touching, lower back touch
  7. neck touch, pelvic touch
  8. hair pull, inner thigh touch, ass touch
  9. Lips touching, bite, lick, Eskimo kiss
  10. makeout

You don't necessarily have to start at 1 but you get the idea. I never really jump up more than 2 points and I never go for the kiss unless I'm at least on level 7, that is unless I start with a kiss for some reason but that's pretty rare. You can esculate very quickly if you understand what level you are on. If she has a bad reaction at any point then you should go back two levels and try again. You need a basic understanding of Kino to use this properly.