Need help coming up with a response

itsmegoddamnit · 2010-10-29T11:18:15+00:00

"That's alright :-)"

straight and to the point. no dramas, no anything.

Box-Monkey · 2010-10-28T22:31:02+00:00

1: Don't ask, tell that she should if she wants to have a good time. You're going to do things anyway, and you're a fun time.

2: ignore her. Don't respond at all and move on. Keep flirting with her in person and build attraction, but talk about other girls you're seeing, etc. Two can play the "seeing other people" game. But, make no mistake, you're seeing other people and she's not a primary, so it has the double function.

ngroot · 2010-10-28T23:15:06+00:00

Would you be interested in having drinks with her anyway (i.e., are you interested in pursuing a non-romantic friendship)? If so, extend invites to her (and any boy that she wants to bring) to events that you and others (not you alone) are going to, like you would a dude who seems cool that you might want to hang out with.

If not, a "drat :-)" would be a fine response. You've been beaten for the moment, acknowledge it and take it with good humor and confidence. That also gives her a little ego boost, which she'll dig. Continue interacting with her as you did before; be casual.

Either way, you're not taking her to bed any time soon. Look for more options.

intjpua · 2010-10-28T23:54:26+00:00

Call the next girl on your list.

philosarapter · 2010-10-29T17:10:13+00:00

She's not interested. Hit on her best friend instead.

getyourshineon · 2010-10-29T23:11:57+00:00

She's politely telling you she's not interested/seeing someone. Bow out gracefully. "No worries, have a great night. Maybe another time, and bring him along?" and then use the night out with the two of them to meet someone else.

Delightful_White · 2010-10-29T23:26:14+00:00

I have a friend who uses the line "Oh that's great, him and my girlfriend should meet". Seems to usually get a positive response and a good laugh. In the least you'll come off as unaffected by it.

yokhai · 2010-10-28T21:23:14+00:00

tell her no biggie, just bring him along, should be fun. Then use them as a joke to help you find a girl for yourself.

The girl might get jealous, or see how desirable you are, and want to "date" you too. Or you get two wingmen to help you pick up chicks at a bar.

Either way its win-win. AMOGing is retarded, don't fight the power, use it.

2010-10-29T00:54:10+00:00

"Oh, I didn't know we were dating. Pick you up at 7. ;)"

Therapist13 · 2010-10-28T21:38:49+00:00

tell her it's all good but if her date goes awkward and she wants a good time, she'll know where to find you.

Title	Need help coming up with a response
Author	intelcore2
Upvotes	3
Comments	18
Date	October 28, 2010 9:06 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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1: Don't ask, tell that she should if she wants to have a good time. You're going to do things anyway, and you're a fun time.