Some girl I went on a three dates with , came home with me and did not fuck. Starting with the first date there was kissing. A bit on the first date. Lot on second date. And she came to my place for third date.

I sent her a text saying:

“I had to think. I want someone who finds me attractive. It’s not fun for me otherwise.”

Her reply:

“I think you got it wrong . If you think I am not attracted to you. If that was the case I won’t have even kissed you to begin with. However like I said I need time & I realised I am not ready to just jump into bed. I hope u understand my feelings. It’s not about you it’s about me. Anyways I wanted to clear this air. As I knew you must have been thinking about it.”

Seems like a dead end to me.