So I DM’d a girl because I thought she looked really beautiful. I opened with a playful compliment and she responded positively. We had some light banter and the conversation flowed for a bit.

At one point she asked about me and I shared a little about my interests. I mentioned spirituality/philosophy, and she said she’s also into spirituality, meditation, and yoga. That part of the conversation felt natural.

Later the conversation started getting a bit dry. When I asked what she was doing, she just said she was having “a chill evening.”

I tried to keep it playful by asking what she thinks about cheesy pickup lines. She said they don’t work on her and that she prefers creativity. So I tried to be creative and suggested a “two truths and a lie” type of interaction. She played along and answered, but didn’t really ask anything back.

That’s the pattern I’m noticing:

• She responds to what I say

• Sometimes she plays along

• But she rarely asks questions about me

• I feel like I’m carrying the conversation most of the time

I also wished her for Women’s Day and she replied confidently (“I celebrate that every day”), which felt playful but didn’t really move the conversation forward.

So now I’m unsure whether:

• she’s not really interested

• she’s just a dry texter

• or if I’m overthinking this and should keep engaging

Would appreciate honest opinions.

TL;DR:

DM’d a girl, had decent banter at first. She responds and plays along but almost never asks questions about me. Feels like I’m carrying the conversation. Not sure if she’s uninterested or just a dry texter.

(Info compiled with help from ChatGPT based on my conversation.)