Please help….gods of Reddit

Worth_Wait · 2026-03-14T16:04:24+00:00

gives off wimp vibes

Back2theCouture · 2026-03-14T16:07:00+00:00

First sentence: low self esteem. You’re not really sure? Ok then don’t say it.

Second sentence: just say you enjoyed talking to her. No need to say about your awkwardness or “like to get to know you better”. TMI. Besides you gotta give her a chance to ask/talk to you. By saying “I enjoyed talking to you,” you also give her a chance to say what she has in mind. Maybe she will say “oh thanks, likewise!” Or “that’s great, so when are we gonna meet again?”

Last sentence: another low self esteem “if you’re interested”. Just say the time and the place. She will tell you if she can or if she’s willing to entertain your idea. Don’t put a disclaimer (“if you’re….”) to cover your insecurity.

Bottom line: Make it short and precise. Spare a big space for her to reply. When you say something, that means you give a chance to the other person to reciprocate. Don’t do all the convo by yourself.

Sendittor · 2026-03-14T21:48:31+00:00

MineDesperate2920 · 2026-03-15T04:55:07+00:00

Sounds gay. Send her “let’s hangout again sometime” no question mark

Primary_Pin_4496 · 2026-03-15T07:08:07+00:00

Oaky correct your tone…

“im not sure what impression you have of me so far” basically communicated “I am dependent on your validation” then “I can be a bit awkward over text” yeah never do that…You think you admitting that sends a soft tone? No makes you look Awkward that’s it…

Now let’s see how to possibly structure it “Hey I really enjoyed the last conversation we had, and i feel like you have a more depth (if you genuinely think that, or something along those lines) to you and I would love to find out…If you’re free on Sunday (or any day you (OP) wanna say) let’s grab a coffee (or cocktails if that’s the vibe)..”

This is very much a base for you, not a copy paste method but the thing i wanna convey is that, be confident asking a girl out. Lead…Show you’re not afraid to ask her out…

At the end of the day bro, If she wants to reject she will reject no matter what you say and how you say it. If she rejects for this, You can keep your frame and say it’s cool and just move on knowing you shot that shot with confidence.

Mr_Serotonin_ · 2026-03-15T13:16:56+00:00

No. Just ignore the fact you like her.

Just send"it was nice hang".

Ask her out out of the blue next time.

Orange_Codex · 2026-03-14T18:54:09+00:00

Inbetweenersmax until you make it, OP.

nexus1409 · 2026-03-15T04:53:39+00:00

If she's remotely attractive, she's probably used to getting these kinds of responses anyway. Sounds like a gentleman doesn't help.

Instead, just ask her out, she probably knows you're interested in her anyway.

poly_nerdy_panda · 2026-03-16T00:49:17+00:00

just tell them you work alot and set up the date 3 text max if she wants to talk and talk imo its just a time waster

Discopotatoz · 2026-03-16T14:58:26+00:00

Don't send that. Until you can understand WHY that's a terrible message you shouldn't engage in progressing via text. Do it face to face.

If you have to send something, KEEP IT SHORT. That will force you to be less wordy and less explainy and less projecting insecurity. Keep it to one or two short sentences. If u can't do it in one or two, keep refining it. Hell run it through chatgpt if you have to.

Title	Please help….gods of Reddit
Author	Living_Topic7994
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Comments	26
Date	March 14, 2026 3:45 PM UTC (4 months ago)
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