Nexting

Alexfortomorrow · 2015-09-16T10:24:45+00:00

Eh, it varies a lot, but generally if by the third time I ask her out she keeps saying no and doesn't offer to reschedule for another day/time, she's done. End of texting/calls.

Then, if she makes a comeback and asks me out, the score resets.

kynka · 2015-09-16T07:03:11+00:00

Generly after 2 text you should wait for her to respond to you no mather how long it takes. Personally i wouldnt delete the number for a while if she desides to text.

ThatSpecialPlace · 2015-09-16T12:29:35+00:00

If you're talking about a girl flaking, I'll give her maybe 2 chances. Unless the first one was a really bad excuse then I probably just wont get a hold of her again, I wouldn't delete her number per say.

As far as texting goes, I only text her once and if she doesn't respond that's that, I don't try texting again.

Kumrag · 2015-09-16T13:43:10+00:00

1 flake on a date and i'm out. 1 no return on a text and i'm out.

I have one simple rule. I'm better than you. If a girl cannot see what i'm offering, then that's her problem not mine.

I have a rule that if it doesn't work the first time it's not gonna work the second time. Therefore, I just delete the number and if they try to make contact in the future I just ignore.

ImJustAMan · 2015-09-16T13:03:09+00:00

There's no set formula of how many tries- gauge her reaction. If she can't make a few specific date proposals, but is still engaging through texts, I ask her for a couple nights that work for her and go from there.

Mi5ery · 2015-09-16T19:41:58+00:00

I never ever next. I just FO. And/or text some funny shit out of the blue sometimes. Then they usually start to chase. I next only girls I'm not interested, not the one I'd like to fuck at some point. That would be fucking dumb. I only 'next' them on my head.

sophicyogastudent · 2015-09-16T13:38:29+00:00

It depends on how they respond to me. If it's clear that they're making it such a burden to themselves just to talk to me or they don't seem interested in me anymore then I deserve someone who will respect me and be as interested in me as I am in them.

swedishfetus · 2015-09-16T17:49:19+00:00

Thanks, everyone. I was thinking that I was being too hard and not giving them a chance but you all seem to do the same.

RobinKennedy23 · 2015-09-16T13:16:13+00:00

7 times.

Title	Nexting
Author	swedishfetus
Upvotes	9
Comments	12
Date	September 16, 2015 6:36 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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