No friends No hobbies...help

austinrose7 · 2022-01-28T01:57:36+00:00

Get hobbies, build a social circle. Without those your results will be severly limited even if you’re as charming and confident as Hank Moody. Watch Coach Kyle on YouTube for help with this, he’s the best dating coach for social circle in the game.

spartan-kick · 2022-01-28T10:13:29+00:00

Don’t focus on dating apps right now.

Use the meetup app. Easy way to meet new people, and try out new bars and restaurants. Even if you don’t vibe with people there, going out and interacting with strangers is a really good way to start developing your social skills, or at least get out the house.

Seriously, I challenge you to go one weekend without TV or the internet, and get outside. This was my biggest problem when first starting day game. Go outside, and talk to a couple people. Friends aren’t just gonna appear while you’re in bed watching Netflix or having a wank.

iJuiiCe_x · 2022-01-28T04:30:16+00:00

I would stay off dating apps and develop yourself first. Don't focus on girls hut focus on becoming a better you

elmokazoo · 2022-01-28T03:59:57+00:00

Make your hobby regular gym attendance and build from there.

The-Bull89 · 2022-01-28T10:08:31+00:00

To get cool friends you must be cool yourself.

Find a hobby. If you can't think of any just literally google hobbies and pick one at random. Try picking one that can be done In a group

Be it archery, yoga, cycling etc. Now search for social groups in your area and join one. On the first day don't be a weirdo, make an effort to introduce yourself to people. Don't expect them to talk to you, much like with approaching women you gotta make the first move yourself. Don't expect to make friends straight away either, some people arnt comfortable around new people straight off the bat, it may take a few interactions for people to warm up to you.

After you feel you've established some kind of rapport try and organise a get together with them be it food or drinks. With guys it's alot easier especially if thier single. You simply say let's go to a bar and meet some girls.

kodu5 · 2022-01-28T03:44:56+00:00

Have the same problem, why I took a break from online dating. Not saying it never worked for me, most of my ex’s were from OD, just been in a slump for the last few years and don’t have any recent pics.

Been doing cold approaches and having more fun and learning from its. Good way to meet friends and explore new places. Also might be a good way to get some better pics once I find some people I click with enough.

But… I’m not adverse to hiring people to be in my pics or take better photos of me…

Healthy_Working3911 · 2022-01-28T01:47:19+00:00

Your one boring mother fucker

Hoho2332 · 2022-01-28T04:11:49+00:00

go out solo and make some friends it doesnt matter women or men because as you talk to more people in the bar or pub, girls gonna notice that you are really soical.

rocksoaker · 2022-01-28T16:18:53+00:00

One of the keys to putting yourself out there is getting used to rejection. Be more carefree. Have genuine interest in enjoying life. women will notice this. Dont ever get rapey either. best of luck

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-01-28T21:19:14+00:00

The problem is you want to get girls without first having a life. You ask “what to put in your bio” when the real question is “how can you get a life before you even think of dating women”

Equivalent_Speaker26 · 2022-01-28T22:46:34+00:00

Get hobbies like road-biking, lifting, tennis, poetry, etc. Go to meetups for these hobbies.

Also go the singles meetups.

Title	No friends No hobbies...help
Author	Orange11a
Upvotes	13
Comments	35
Date	January 28, 2022 1:42 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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