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Not All Badboys are Created Equal

Tenmagnet

November 28, 2017

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Title	Not All Badboys are Created Equal
Author	Tenmagnet
Upvotes	35
Comments	10
Date	November 28, 2017 2:47 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7g4m5d/not_all_badboys_are_created_equal/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/not-all-badboys-are-created-equal.1437599 https://theredarchive.com/post/1437599

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[–]Tenmagnet 8 years ago* [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link

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[–]NoloRadio 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Funny, I was thinking about this today while letting my mind wander at the gym. When guys make the classic nice-guy complaint of 'the world is unfair, women only like assholes,' it's really a pattern-recognition issue. They don't see that 'asshole' behavior is a side-effect of being confident and self-possessed (Venn diagram: not all confident people are asshole, but all assholes are confident). But they also fail to see the counter-examples: While complaining that women only like assholes, they probably have some friends who they don't consider assholes and who are doing fine in their dating lives...but instead of accounting for those guys in their model, they just assume that they got lucky and found women who like them for being nice, when in fact, what's far more likely is that those friends happen to have the confidence bit down without the 'asshole' bit, but the nice guy whiners don't notice the common thread.

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