A Really Simple Theory of Attraction that Will Change Your Understanding of Sexuality (WATCH THIS)

weightliftin4life · 2014-01-17T17:16:13+00:00

This is a great video, must watch, even if you already know it. He reiterates what you need to know

Tenmagnet · 2014-01-18T02:35:22+00:00

Guys - there were a ton of questions for this one, and I had a bit of extra footage from Sydney so I've made a part two to this video that goes into a bit more depth and answers some questions from this thread.

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1vhw24/a_simple_yet_perspectivechanging_theory_of/

Please upvote them both if you like them!

namenumbers · 2014-01-17T23:35:29+00:00

Very cool theory, although I'm not entirely sure I believe desire is a real word anymore

adam483t · 2014-01-18T03:19:53+00:00

How does a college guy project himself and actually BE a powerful man? I'm twenty one, and my idea of attraction is off it feels. I can be handsome and charming, but I'm a student who doesn't have a job.

rebelmaryjane · 2014-01-17T23:08:33+00:00

Very true.. women like to be desired. That's why they like guys to show attention even when they are not that interested and why sometimes girls will like u more when u back off a bit.

blonderson · 2014-01-18T03:41:30+00:00

Woman checking in -- men should note this isn't NOT TRUE FOR EVERY WOMAN. One of the biggest problems i see with the content of this subreddit is it assumes woman are mass-produced in a factory and thus all want the same things and work the same way. I actually desire men, not just "desire to be desired." In fact, compliments do nothing for me. They have even turned me off from guys. That's not to say they aren't effective in many situations, but this notion that all you have to do is tell a woman you're interested because that's all she wants is overshadowing the good advice. Be a powerful man. For yourself, not for women. Be confident, be strong, be smart. But do it because that's who you want to be, not because that's who a WOMAN wants you to be.

2014-01-18T04:39:43+00:00

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Tenmagnet · 2014-01-17T21:13:13+00:00

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ZiRALiX · 2014-01-18T04:16:28+00:00

In this theory men and women fit together perfectly because

men want power and women
women want to be desired by powerful men

it's elegant.

YetzirahToAhssiah · 2014-01-18T06:54:36+00:00

Oh my god.

Communicate power before, or at the same time that you communicate desire for her.

This is what I used to do, but forgot, and have stumbled upon recently accidently. My rough patch is over.

ben0wn4g3 · 2014-01-18T14:28:03+00:00

I've thought for a long while now that the important thing is 'social status' in the small pond that is her world. Within the walls of her reality you must be a someone for some reason to her.

I really discovered this one time I went to some douchebag event for some obscure sport and I ended up at a bar with this one girl I knew, her friend(f) and this other guy; who in normal circumstances wouldn't have stood a chance in hell against me- he had literally ONE thing on me- that was that he was a 'someone' in that obscure sport that this other girl was also into.

sachalamp · 2014-01-18T07:51:17+00:00

This is just a very delusional rationalization that's supposed to give men some upper grounds of some sort. It's an ego stroke.

Women want to be desired the same way men want to be desired. Women desire men as much as men desire women.

DeuceBuggalo · 2014-01-18T04:19:03+00:00

This vid parallels Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. He hammers the point that desire is fundamental to getting what you want in life over and over again throughout the book. By fundamental, I mean that it has to come before everything else.

The speaker in the vid similarly emphasizes the point, and I think he's spot on.

ArtursO · 2014-01-18T06:08:48+00:00

Power confidence and what not are obvious. Women wanting to be desired is a good spin on things.

Title	A Really Simple Theory of Attraction that Will Change Your Understanding of Sexuality (WATCH THIS)
Author	Tenmagnet
Upvotes	234
Comments	37
Date	January 17, 2014 4:27 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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