I've done a lot of approaches in bars and clubs over the past few weeks and every single time I get rejected. I look fine and some girls initially come and talk to me, but as soon as I open my mouth, they leave.

I keep hearing about people just talking about what's in their head and just maintaining the conversation. That shit doesn't work with people like me, who have awkward body language. Maintaining the conversation is nearly impossible when the implementation is awkward.

I've also gotten shit tested a million times with 'I have a bf', and only now am i learning how to respond to that, but all in all, i've become 10 times more depressed because i'm not seeing any tangible results and can't even talk to people.

What can I do to make things easier for myself?