Hi all, Been going through a oneitis situation for a while now. I know all the reasons why this is bad, have read all the (supposed) ways of getting out of the rut. I just remembered this, and hope it may help someone out:

Despite all the great things I've read here on the subject, the most helpful thing I've ever found on this subject is something a bartender once told me while I was drinking and belly-aching over a girl while I had the poor guy captive audience at the bar:

"One thing's for sure: Wherever she is right now, she ain't thinkin' 'bout you"

Ouch. Wake-up call!

Just thought I'd share.