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[–]Agreable_Actuator84 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes, pent up demand for in person connection. Get ready!
[–]charm33 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dicks out for Day-game!
[–]earsurgery9 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
girls will probably think it's even weirder to get approached lol (especially people who are getting so used to socia distancing etc). The longer this shit carries on, the more unusual it will seem to talk to strangers which is why I really hope we beat this thing sooner rather than later!
A generation of people growing up with social distancing doesn't sound good for pickup tbh! (such as in the UK where people already think it's weird to talk to strangers compared to the US!)
Girls who are only now going to bars for the first time are gonna feel like this (social distancing and not talking to strangers) is normal. SO in a years time when maybe social distancing has ended, you approach a girl in a bar and say 'hi', and she's looking around for the bouncer to save her because you're too close and not wearing a mask lol
[–]Andetag 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't think I've ever read a post by the earsugary fellow that wasn't cynical or just plain negative. Must be a fun guy to hang around!
[–]jlund141 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I agree. He does have sort of a point tho, this is going to fuck with girls comfortability w getting approached. The good news is this probably making guys more nervous to approach too, lowering competition.
[–]CodingLemur 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are those girls going to forget the years of life spent before covid? No. Its going to be weird at first but it will snap back to normal just as fast as social distancing became the new normal. Humans adapt quickly.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ayy bouncer here. It's already happening
We have a lot of girls who turned 21 since covid coming in with their friends
We also have 20 years worth of thirsty dudes that haven't gotten laid since 2019 at best
[–]TheNexum 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes, people naturally crave human interaction. Use this time to work on your "game" and get ready. Also, my friends and I, will go to what is open and go up to girls we are interested in whether it is in a clothing store, grocery store, etc. We have all seen great results. I made a podcast episode from our experience, and we'd love to hear what you think.
https://open.spotify.com/episode/1j2c2cAczTx6DC6dLX2Sjz
[–]jlund14 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That was dope cant tell u how much i appreciate the travel recommendations, ive been dying to escape chicago and party.
[–]Datingcoachcee 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
New York seducer/coach here. I took a break from cold approaching during the first lockdown (March-End of June) of 2020. I started going out last summer to approach women in the streets of New York and encountered moderate success. I expect people to yearn for more in person interactions come Spring and Summer 2021 making dating much more personable, exciting and human than ever before.
Regarding that article, I find it insane that a man would drive 14 hours to meet a woman he chatted with on Instagram. 14 hours of his precious life that he will never get back only to find out that the girl he liked and him have no chemistry. I find out almost instantly whether I have chemistry with a girl I approach. Cold Approaching or "Day game" has the best ROI in terms of your time, you quickly decipher what girls like you and seem interested and which don't all without spending hours swiping in front of a screen while you sit on the toilet. Those of you who do use dating apps are swiping your lives away and getting a horrible return on the most valuable resource you have, time.
Yours truly
Cee
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[–]Datingcoachcee 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Learn how to flirt, don't just have a back and forth logical conversation with a woman. Be playful, tease, a lot of it is HOW YOU COMMUNICATE, not what you communicate. This is a sure way to create more chemistry. PM me if you have more questions.
[–]DryAdhesiveness6579 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yep
[–]putcoolusernamehere -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Idk about a pickup trend, but I definitely think women will be way more receptive to guys who do pickup.
[–]X-Centric 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, whoever drives 14 hours to meet someone without a call or video call first is a psychopath, lol (or extremely needy). But yes, I can see everyone eager to meet new people face to face once all this passes.
[–]eieuxezyk 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The statement is muddled to me. I think he’s referring to that idea I’m sure you’ve heard when people look nothing like their photos/videos in real life to present the aura, chemistry. But I’m not on Instagram or Facebook or any of that stuff so I could be missing something on the initial come-to-know. It’s interesting—-I think?—-though on my next point: he’s unintentionally creating drama in the very act that he hoped to reduce the drama by driving all those hours to meet up with her.
[–]X-Centric 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The logical steps before taking a long drive to meet someone should be to really know that person, or at least have a good idea of what you're getting into. Maybe everything seemed fine and dandy but somehow didn't work when they met? Shrug
[–]Aghayden 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Does thinking about this help you in any way? Just experiment and go out as things return to normal as opposed to proactively looking for rationalizations not to approach women in a future scenario.
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