Push-Pull Texting Guide?

SemenMoustache · 2015-01-11T21:32:06+00:00

If it's someone I've only met the once or twice then I don't tend to bother, too easy for it to backfire. If you try pushing, and then she doesn't text back for 6 hours you might start to analyse it and think you've fucked up. And then when she does finally respond you'll end up backtracking and be overly nice.

For someone I'm seeing often, I'll just tease them most of the time and throw out a rare compliment.

This probably doesn't answer your question but in my experience it's not worth the hassle. Push/pull is great in person when you can gauge an instant reaction. Over text, not so much.

mightymike88 · 2015-01-11T21:04:34+00:00

From what I've read in this sub, the idea is to not text a girl except to make plans. That's it. It's impossibly hard to increase attraction through texting while it's incredibly easy to lose it. So asking for a guide for push-pull texting is already going against the general consensus advice I've seen on here.

The text/phone game stuff on the sidebar is solid and all you really need.

Wabbajak · 2015-01-11T22:36:59+00:00

Read this. And this. This too.

And take notes, just reading and forgetting everything doesn't work.

Major0CEL0T · 2015-01-11T20:19:26+00:00

I try the push-pull technique but I find that I push too hard and they retreat. :/

Oh well, I heard you gotta be willing to lose the girl if you try this.

Nickdunn116 · 2015-01-11T19:44:05+00:00

This needs to get big, because I need tips as well.

fishin4unicorns · 2015-01-11T22:39:00+00:00

I feel like texting is disingenuous. If a guy really likes me he should call me. I would much rather hear him say I'm beautiful than get it in a text. But, I could really use some tips. I keep losing at this texting game.

Radicalmattitude1 · 2015-01-11T22:45:33+00:00

I don't think texting is a good time for push and pull. Its just too easy to misconstrue the meaning and intentions of your text.

The purpose of push-pull (AKA flirting) is to raise attraction and slightly raise comfort. From my experience, its really hard to actually RAISE attraction through texting. You can maintain it at best.

I usually keep texts short. Focus on making plans and toss in occasional jokes and silly material. If you are going to be straight up sarcastic, be damn sure she is going to get the sarcasm, it could easily backfire. If you have to say JK afterwards, then you shouldn't have said it to begin with.

If you're going to flirt through text, use call back humor. I think sexual references and innuendos are good too if you've already fucked her or she was receptive to sexual comments in person.

For example, I was seeing a new girl and we were texting to make plans:

Her: I'm sad we'll be missing our usual Thursday hangout:(

Me: Ya me too. going strong for two weeks now.

Her: Guess we may just have to make up for lost time next time we see each other.

Me: How do you suggest we make up for this lost time?

Her: Aha you tell me :)

Me: Haha do everything Double. I'll fuck you twice as hard. You'll scream twice as loud, and we'll both cum twice as much, sound good?

Her: Omg. I just got extremely hot. That was hot. You're hot. Omg

raoulk · 2015-01-12T02:16:35+00:00

I'd recommend using Jefit, it's really easy to log sets/reps in a programme and have it set for a certain rest timer, available for both Android and iDung. Or you can go old fashioned and write down with pen and paper.

Personally I prefer Push Pull Legs though.

hostergaard · 2015-01-12T10:28:28+00:00

As general rule, texting is bad for creating attraction.

However, I stumbled upon a method that works for me and haven't failed to turn the table where the girls starts messaging me and getting my attention:

After I get her number I message her and at one point (I know, draw the rest of the fucking owl and all that, but it really depends on the situation) I get her to send a picture of herself, it does not have to be sexual, just a simple picture of her head is fine, they are usually okay with this. You can even say its for your phone book or whatever.

Then you heap on some thick compliments, note her best features and praise her looks. I go something like this "I have to say it, you got a really beautiful face :) seductive lips, cute nose and deep eyes. Haha, You are genuinely attractive...!"

You have to be genuine tough, girls will know if you aren't, pay attention and find her best features and its easy.

Then she will respond with something to the effect of "Oh stop it you! You are embarrassing me!"

And here is the kicker; I anwser with "No I don't want to :D there is so much about you that is so delightful"

Don' translate so well from my native language, but at that point they are usually hooked.

Title	Push-Pull Texting Guide?
Author	le_Synergy
Upvotes	90
Comments	51
Date	January 11, 2015 6:25 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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