Quick tip for restaurant dates

eureka123 · 2012-11-14T04:54:51+00:00

When a woman asks if you want to sit next to her, say yes.

AveofSpades · 2012-11-13T23:59:13+00:00

Sitting across a table from someone is a subconscious, non-verbal communication of an adverserial situation as there is a physical barrier between you.

I've said it ad nauseum here, this book is a must read for beginners, and pros.

You'll learn non-verbal communication and improve your game 5 fold.

michaellane · 2012-11-14T11:22:37+00:00

First date= take them to shoot pool. If they dont know how it opens the doors for touching. If they do then you joke around when she goes to shoot. Also gives all the time in the world to talk and get to know someone.

beep41 · 2012-11-14T09:23:40+00:00

Try sitting diagonally is the table allows for it.

backtothegame · 2012-11-14T00:31:59+00:00

Why do a restaurant date for a first date at all? If you're still qualifying a girl that's a pretty big commitment and this is coming from someone who's a big eater.

Drunken__Master · 2012-11-14T05:27:11+00:00

I was a server for a number of years and it was ALWAYS the biggest assholes that sat next to their date instead of across from them.

wantmywings · 2012-11-14T04:14:03+00:00

You should try a hookah bar. You only have to be 18 to go, you can sit next to each other the whole time, share one hookah, have coffee, and also have appetizers while being in a relaxed environment.

habaroa · 2012-11-14T00:30:28+00:00

I just went on a dinner date and we didn't sit side by side but the restaurant was Tapas style so it was not awkward whatsoever. I actually enjoyed it and she said she had a fantastic time and we are going on another date soon.

clox4wilcox · 2012-11-14T05:04:08+00:00

No way, sitting next to each other is awkward. You have to turn to look her in the eyes, its just weird man.

athijezar · 2012-11-14T07:21:34+00:00

Stumbled over this through a series of links, but just wanted to say that sitting next to a guy while eating is great (even preferable) if I really like him, but if it's just someone I've just met or haven't gotten terribly friendly with already, it feels over-intimate and awkward.

magicroot75 · 2012-11-14T01:41:57+00:00

I went on a first date and we ended at a bar sitting across the table. She said she felt like it was interview style so I quickly told her to jump over to my side. She did but I didn't kino. Date quickly ended.

craftyjasper · 2012-11-14T14:11:48+00:00

When I see a man and woman sitting on the same side of a table or booth, my first thought is always, "Wow, what a controlling douchebag that guy must be." Don't really know why, but that's what it looks like to me. I'd rather make eye contact.

SemajSemajSemaj · 2012-11-14T16:42:55+00:00

You.Said.No?

2012-11-14T05:13:58+00:00

Her: Do you want to sit besides me.

monkeymagoo: NO!

Sorry but that's to damn funny.

Also yeah a restaurant is a little to much for a first date.

Title	Quick tip for restaurant dates
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Date	November 13, 2012 11:36 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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