Real talk: does cold approach daygame actually work? I’m talking sidewalk, park, grocery store, etc. I’ve heard mixed opinions.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-09T23:17:20+00:00

Yes, it works but only if you got the social skills which most people in this sub don’t have.

If you can hold a conversation for 10 mins minutes with a met you met in cold approach, manage to evoke emotional responses from her, build a connection, get her to familiarise with you, and flirt with her smoothly during that cold approach, (which, like i said, requires at least 10 mins approx of conversation) then yes it works.

If you just go around saying shit like: “Hey i think you are really cute, what’s your name cool can you give me your number” and that’s it, then no you will find that most of those numbers flake and don’t go anywhere’s which people then claim it’s proof that it doesn’t work except that’s not how cold approach is supposed to be done in the first place.

Cold approach is not a tactic to get numbers as fast as possible, it’s just another way to start a conversation to seduce her and a conversation to seduce her cannot be as short as one minutes during daytime.

The goal is not to go from woman to woman tossing a coin to see if one is interested in sex, the goal is to get them to desire sex with you even if they initially didn’t think of you that way, and that requires longer conversations.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2022-07-09T23:58:45+00:00

This was a completely normal thing since the dawn of humanity until the internet came along. Now everybody got these rules and stigmas in their head and with the state of our society, it is easy to be discouraged when it comes to cold approach. Truth is you can meet anybody just by leaving your house. Don't see it as "cold approach" look at it for what it is...meeting new people the natural way. Don't approach with motive written all over you, have a normal conversation to gauge how receptive she is to you, if she keeps talking or starts flirting, then escalate and ask to hang out. The much more effective way is to have more women involved in your regular routine and in your activities, community involvement exposes you to women u will see on a regular basis(even something as simple as being a 5am dunkin regular), and they are much more open and comfortable when u are already an acquaintance.

boxmail2800 · 2022-07-10T00:42:33+00:00

Practice in nearly anything improves the statistical outcome. Learning to talk to people is like a muscle that needs to be worked out.

ChoiceTank · 2022-07-10T10:34:13+00:00

Of course it fucking works, and if it doesnt for you, work on yourself. Girls react like a mirror to your vibes, if you are anxious and creepy, they'll feel that. If you're smiling and positive, they'll cheer for you

goyimhater87 · 2022-07-09T23:25:09+00:00

It doesn't unleas they find you attractive in the first place. How tall are you?

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-07-10T05:41:39+00:00

Not recently. It used to be the only way to meet people but with all this media and third-party services, I don't like drawing that much attention to myself. I talk to people all the time but sometimes people go berserk on me, like they become superimposed bill collectors. It's a trip, so you have to choose your battles. Sometimes it's not really worth it, even just to get a date.

johny_white · 2022-07-10T07:50:41+00:00

I know dating is a number game but if you see a hot chick when you walk down the street just talk to her. I don't go out with the intention of getting girls but if I find an attractive one I just go there and talk to her.

Title	Real talk: does cold approach daygame actually work? I’m talking sidewalk, park, grocery store, etc. I’ve heard mixed opinions.
Author	bulldawg91
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Date	July 9, 2022 10:53 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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