Redditors really need your help. Too many people are alone, but just seem to lack some confidence and skills. (I'm not endorsing Pickup artistry, but just teaching some people how to have some confidence in themselves)

Weaponized_Dairy · 2010-11-22T14:33:33+00:00

This subreddit is meant to be discovered, not advertised. As you yourself hold some form of contempt for Seddit while not fully realizing what it is.

Frankly I'm getting tired of this hashed out theory that we somehow "trick" girls into bed. This cannot be farther from the truth, because if it were true, then PUA would FAR MORE popular. The mental and physical changes the sedditors put themselves through for months and years at a time to get better with women directly proves that "tricks" are not what we use on females, but ourselves, to overcome AA and other social phobias and lack of confidence.

Speaking from experience: This type of change, what we offer at seddit can only be fully appreciated when the person seeks it out. When that person has had enough, has fallen flat for the 100th time, has been the AFC for too long and then that person decides to fight back. The individual seeking help is at his lowest point, he is in a dark place and seeking any form of understanding.....that is who Seddit is for. We would not be understood if we were to "sell" this to people who are simply lonely...Seddit is for those beyond lonely.

To reemphasize once again, because my brothers need reminding: Seddit does not exist.

Edit: I should mention that even though I felt your lack of understanding on PUA kind of shortsighted and misinformed. I am impressed with your seemingly genuine concern for your fellow community members and their plight. I would be careful with carrying that weight on your shoulders for to long. Some people just cant be helped, and others enjoy misery. Its social triage.

cheddarchexmix · 2010-11-22T05:29:26+00:00

Be aware that if you post to other subs with an account that you use for r/seduction, you will regularly get flamed to high heaven by the many PUA-haters out there even if your post has nothing to do with PUA stuff. I use different accounts for different subs to prevent this type of history trolling.

I've taken to not doing anything to draw attention on Reddit to r/seduction. A lot of people hate/misunderstand "the community", and I personally don't want those people to start spending time here.

Imreallytrying · 2010-11-22T07:37:54+00:00

MAJOR EDIT

I thought I submitted this post as a link, but it appears that didn't happen.

This is what I'm referring to...

http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/e9k6v/how_many_of_you_are_truly_forever_alone/

Lanko · 2010-11-22T16:46:20+00:00

There's nothing wrong with PUA in general. The whole Idea is:

Teaching people to be self confident.
teaching people how to tell if a girl is actually interested.
teaching people how to build interest gradually.

Lets face it. most people try too hard. The dating world is not a place where we get feedback. It's not like you can just ask a girl why she's shooting you down and expect to get any sort of answer other than "your just not my type"

yeah, we have some real douchebags in this subreddit, but your going to find that in every community. we focus on trying to develop the skills, what you do with them is your own responsibility.

ThrowawayPUA · 2010-11-22T04:51:42+00:00

Redditors don't need our help. It's not our place, or your place, to push PUA in front of them. They'll find it if they need it.

And for that matter, if you don't like pickup, why are you posting here?

PeriwinklePlatypus · 2010-11-22T06:47:10+00:00

What do you propose we do?

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