This post is directed to the guys who's only aim is to pump and dump as many women as they can and avoid being in a relationship. I'm not here to judge it and tell you that it's wrong. I want you to see it from the other side. At the same time, it's not bad for other guys who are serious in wanting to genuinely get to know women but struggle knowing how to approach them. My advice is simple: Sign up on OF and subscribe to a bunch of free models. Don't pay for anything. This works even better if you legitimately are broke so you aren't tempted to spend money. Why do I advise this? Because I believe men need to see things from women's perspective and this is the best way to experience it.

One of my girlfriends is an OF model and I help her with her content. In ended up that I got an OF myself to learn the ins and outs and tricks. I subbed to someone free just out of curiosity and noticed they immediately subbed back to me. I'm not sure what I plan to do with the profile, but having followers looks better than none so I started adding every free one I came across because they usually follow back and my subscriber count looks respectable. It's not zero.

Now, we all know these girls are here to make money. They only want one thing. But that's exactly the experience you need for yourself to truly get it. You need to see for yourself what it feels like when people are coming at you left and right only for one thing. They don't want to know you. They aren't interested in anything about you. They want you to buy their content and then they're off to the next one until they need more money from you. And these women will message you first. No worries. Just sit back and quickly you'll have an inbox of messages but ultimately you know what it is they want. Be honest, tell them you're not looking to buy content and won't buy content. Some will just flat out stop talking to you but others will persist anyway every day trying to entice you with the same old shit. You try to have a non-sexual conversation and without fail, they try to turn it around to sexual and sell you content.

Pay attention to how guarded and suspicious you become. Compliments no longer mean shit. You know what she's really after. You wonder when polite conversation is going to give way to being sold something. Watch how it changes your whole attitude towards even talking to someone else. Stay in this until it sinks in that outside of OF, in the real word, this is the general experience most women have with men.

It doesn't matter if you're the nice one who is after more than sex, odds are that woman's life experience is dealing with a bunch of men who were only after one thing: sex. That's why your compliments don't work. That's why she's standoffish, doubtful and suspicious of everything you say. Because as clever as you guys think you're being with your "lines" and "daygame", you're not. You'll see for yourself it's pretty damn obvious when someone is only after one thing, once you've had enough experiences.

You guys seem to think women have it so easy, especially on dating apps, because the ratio is typically 20 to 1 at minimum. You seem to think women have the advantage because they get a hundred messages to choose from. You need to experience for yourself what it's like having 100 messages that are all only wanting one thing and one thing only from you. It's not a compliment. It's not flattering. It's not an advantage. 100 messages mean nothing when not a single one of them is what you're looking for. 100 "10"-looking women means nothing when not a single one of them wants anything more than you to buy their content.

When you get so sick and tired of being hit up for one thing only, sick and tired of all the tricks and "lines", then you're ready to go back out into the dating world and understand things from the woman's perspective. There's no substitute for being genuinely interested in another human being. There's no way to fake it and there's no algorithm to simulate it. The only thing you accomplish with this PUA nonsense advice is you fool the women who haven't gotten wise to that particular trick yet. But then the next guy after you suffers because now she's suspicious of everyone.