Scheduled second date at my house. Attraction was definitely built, no issues so far. She was a no-show. No call, text, nothing. What do?

throwaway135798 · 2013-04-10T18:37:02+00:00

no show and no call? That's just a rude thing to do no matter what the occasion is. Even if she was caught up in the moment, she should definitely call and apologize or text after whatever emergency has passed.

move on.

2013-04-10T19:56:28+00:00

Move along, move along. Nothing to see here ladies and gentlemen.

Nexdominus · 2013-04-10T21:09:53+00:00

IMO: regardless of phone issues she no showed because you scheduled the date at "your house". You gave her no option for plausible deniability.

What would have been better is if you scheduled the date some place and steered the her back to your place at some point during the date.

EG: You take her to bar/club just have one suggest going some place else. While going to second place say you'd just like to stop by your place to pick up your "X" real quick before you get to the second place.

BAM! You've got her at your place. You've given her deniability, and she's not feeling slutty because even though she wanted to go there the whole time any way it's important to her that you don't think she's a slut.

She can now also tell her friends "well first we went to 'X' club and then we were going to 'Y' club but on the way we had to stop at his place and pick up 'Z'. Then one thing lead to another...." See this way it's not her fault.

aliboy67 · 2013-04-10T19:22:19+00:00

Have confidence and move on and dont sweat it they may call back with legit reason

nittutt · 2013-04-11T00:11:51+00:00

Sorry if i come off as a dick, but, usually when this stuff happens: Attraction was not built FOR HER (in comparison to the other guys in her life).

Do_you_even_thrift · 2013-04-11T14:05:55+00:00

I don't know that I could just let it go. Maybe its my AFC-age... or just my sense of general manners, but I'd text her and say something to the extent of, "I'm disappointed that you stood me up without a decency of a call or a text. I had expected more."

MyThrowawaySeddit · 2013-04-10T22:39:54+00:00

Step 1: NEXT. Step 2: If you interact with her again in some other context, pretend it never happened and treat her like the random person you're not interested in that she is. Step 3: If she brings it up and apologizes, act like you have no idea what she's talking about. You didn't even remember scheduling that date. She's that irrelevant.

Title	Scheduled second date at my house. Attraction was definitely built, no issues so far. She was a no-show. No call, text, nothing. What do?
Author	puredoubt
Upvotes	6
Comments	18
Date	April 10, 2013 6:34 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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