Seriously how do you become a man?

Jacob_961 · 2017-05-23T19:00:45+00:00

This is a really good question. Being a man is about taking responsibility for your actions and at a higher level the actions of others. When you mess up, acknowledge it and fix it, when you want something, take action towards making it a reality. Children cannot take responsibility for their actions because they cannot ensure their own survival. As an adult, you have a responsibility towards yourself to take care of yourself so you don't allow yourself excuses. You either do it or you don't do it but you don't put yourself in a situation where where someone else is responsible for your life choices. You and you alone are responsible for yourself. You can blame anyone you want but the sooner you realise the only person you truly got in your life is you, the sooner you will treat yourself better and the sooner you will hold yourself accountable for your life.

TheColoradical · 2017-05-23T18:29:41+00:00

You stop giving a shit what other people think and do what makes you happy

DirkDieGurke · 2017-05-23T18:32:26+00:00

Do things, and try things regardless of fear. Act as if you are not afraid, and one day you wont be afraid.

Confidence comes naturally from experience. Trust me. Do as much as you can, try as many things as you can, go as many places as you can. The confidence will come naturally. This includes girls. BONUS POINTS: Eat alone or go with a buddy to different restaurants. This will make your dates a lot smoother as your knowledge of dining and entertainment grows.

Sure, you will make mistakes at first, but no big deal.

Don't get stuck on this "man" ideal. Being a man means simply having your shit together. IE: Don't be a loser.

Do this: Figure out what you want to do in life, then do it. Take care of yourself, hygiene, style, education. Pick quality women to go after...or rather attract.

*A man doesn't do a whole lot of chasing. A man that has his shit together naturally attracts women.

joomla00 · 2017-05-23T19:10:19+00:00

Being true to yourself while being good to others.

fromCovington · 2017-05-23T19:34:36+00:00

I feel you. I'd say find a role model of a man you want to be. Mines my dad, he's been to war, to prison, been shot stabbed beaten. He's fearless, knows how to do anything I can imagine. Not a day in my life have I met someone who doesn't love my dad. God I wanna be just like him when I grow up.

Jack__Knife · 2017-05-24T17:41:22+00:00

Never be afraid to be loud, be afraid to have no voice. Never be afraid of the thoughts of others, be afraid of not being true to who you are. Your own style makes you who you are; don't adopt someone's you’re not.

Learn to hunt and or fish, and earn $$. Men are providers. Learn about cars or motorcycles. Men are fixers. Be in a sport. Men are athletes. Join a gym and lift heavy, Men are warriors. Learn how to make her squirt, squirm, and moan. Men are lovers.

_TurnuptheSun_ · 2017-05-23T22:17:38+00:00

Good question. If you want to become a man that is attracts women, then you have to become a high-value man. That value of being a masculine, healthy man translates to higher quality women. RSD Max has an excellent video on the steps necessary tobecome a high-value man (his infield videos are pretty nuts too and will give you an idea of what good game looks like) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fN5FkKS7V3w&list=PL9-Q3NjD4AANDpMXKySZRYNgnN-pnAxgL&index=132

On top of what he said: eat healthy, lift weights, have goals and ambitions for the future, take care of your appearance. In a single phrase: "Respect yourself."

Doing these things Improve your position on the value ladder and you will reap the results of those efforts in seduction. If you raise your level high enough, it simple becomes a matter of being in the right place at the right time and boom, you win.

There are a lot of numbers going on in the game that nobody can see and nobody can say exist, but trust me when I say they do exist, and they can be manipulated to your favour very easily. It only takes determination, discipline, and follow through.

2017-05-23T23:26:08+00:00

There are plenty of books on the topic, check'em out. Being a gentleman is a very nuanced topic and can't just be addressed with a mere internet post.

Title	Seriously how do you become a man?
Author	I_Main_TwistedFate
Upvotes	5
Comments	13
Date	May 23, 2017 6:18 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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