Sexual Vibe?

MasonJarTeaDrinker · 2014-06-17T22:39:51+00:00

Here we go I found where I had read this.

One thing that has been a HUGE help to me is a technique I learned from James Marshall: Make eye contact, and while looking directly in her one eye with both your eyes, MENTALLY say/think/project, 'I'm going to fuck you.' The intention this projects is nuts! Women seem to instantly pick up on the vibration. Combine this technique with the 'triangular looking', i.e., eyes, lips, eyes, lips, and you are effectively doing an unconscious mind-fuck on her. When I first learned this technique I was doing it to every woman that crossed my path, and they all responded positively. It got to the point that I felt like I was shooting laser beams into her brain. Fucking crazy. Now, I am more discerning with whom I use this superpower. It's powerful.

2014-06-17T22:18:30+00:00

When you talk to a girl, are you trying to fuck her? Or, are you trying to be her gay boyfriend that goes shopping with her?

I'm exaggerating, but I hope you get the point.

SpeedracerZ · 2014-06-17T22:30:01+00:00

Go find a few articles, a lot of it is don't be negative, ever. Second, touch is very important, forearm, knees, shoulder, little touches at appropriate times and of course use some judgement. Third, be confident, not an overbearing asshat, just confident. Be forward, do not expect them to make the move. And turn off the porn and cut your masturbation in half, for real. Not sure what your habits are but this made such a huge difference. Your body chemistry gets all messed up and the real deal doesn't trigger pheromones and the like as the body is supposed to.

MasonJarTeaDrinker · 2014-06-17T22:32:00+00:00

Look at the girl in the eye's and think to yourself "I'm gonna fuck the shit out of you" that should get you there, or at least closer to it.

childishgames · 2014-06-18T07:22:17+00:00

You will learn what works for you, but just start making more aggressive, risky moves. They won't always work, but you will figure out what does work over time.

I like to tease the girl by joking around with her/talking to her normally, then kinda "flipping the switch" into sexual mode for 5-10 second increments. For example, I might be having a conversation with a girl for a minute... with 2 feet of space in between us. Then I'll "flip the switch", get right up in front of her, talk slowly, look at her lips, talk into her ear, etc. for 5 seconds... then I'll back up and continue normal conversation. You should be able to tell if she was receptive or not. If she is receptive, you can "flip the switch" more frequently... until you finally go in for the make out. Then you can try for more.

I don't know if this is the correct "by the book" way a PUA would tell you to do things, but it works for me.

AlphaAlpha78 · 2014-06-18T02:38:38+00:00

Eye contact is always important. I find that if I don't hold good eye contact women don't know that I like them. Kino is good too. Hold their hands and make caresses.

legendoflink3 · 2014-06-18T13:46:51+00:00

I've experienced this. Im in my mid 20s and figured it out in my late teens. Mine works with eye contact. Apparently girls can see the "lust" in my eyes. It comes naturally when I drink. And funny enough it was my bid who told me I had a strange look in my eyes when we were looking at strippers. He said I should look at every girl like that and so it began.

Also I've seen it work for other people wjo are simply just comfortable in their own skin and have no personal bubble.

philosarapter · 2014-06-18T19:49:52+00:00

It means you don't talk about sex, oggle or hit on women you find attractive or show other indicators that you are looking to fuck. I find this is easily corrected with proper use of innuendo, compliments which focus on a sexual aspect of the girl, and body language.

Next time you are with a girl and she does something hot, tell her she's just turned you on. Girls feel attractive when they know they can make guys get hard.

Or just out of the blue one day, say "You know if we ever fucked it'd be insanely good right?"

PowerSeductionWar · 2014-06-18T21:55:45+00:00

This is from Gunwitch Method, I think it's what you're looking for:

Section 10: Sexual state broken down.

Sexual state is THE most important thing you will learn from this guide. It is THE mind state you will be using to deal with women you want to sleep with. It is most likely the mind state you’ve had every time you ever sexed a woman in the past, at least as soon as the point came when you KNEW it was gonna happen. There is a certain “walks like a duck acts like a duck, must be a duck” dynamic working for you in the sexual state. If you act like her lover, act like you are in a sexual encounter and assume the behaviors and actions of a great lover, she eventually will start to think you are a waterfowl. Just kidding, of course she starts to go into the same states of mind from other sexual encounters she has had in the past, if she is at all attracted. This is what’s called “rapport congruency”. You can look it up if you want to read 300 pages of dime store psychology, but suffice to say, if all the actions and states are present your mind kinda starts to assume it’s the same situation, a milder form of “deja vu”.

Furthermore, when someone perceives something in someone, but isn’t directly told to them verbally by the person, they tend to think its THEY who are the ones imagining it – that it is comes from within them. That’s why I tell you later to not verbalize your sexual intent in any way, as when you don’t, she will more likely to think, “Why am I thinking sexually about this guy….hmmm I must want him or else I wouldn’t see him as such a horny guy.”

The “sexual state” is readily stepped into by imagining how you interacted with your last lover when in the bedroom before sex, or during pillow talk, and had a lustful desire for the woman. These are the things that it should encompass. These specifics are not to be used individually, but as an overall state that you go into when dealing with a woman. Read Bruce Lees Tao of Jeet Kune Do for an understanding of not focusing on specific technique but rather on overall strategy that encompasses several techniques.

My method has been compared to this type of “fluid” theory, contrasting other seduction methods that are closer to classical Karate, which focuses on memorized techniques that take longer to master, and are harder to remember under stress. What follows of more of a troubleshooting guide.

10.1 Sensual eye contact (EC). Proper eye contact with a woman is an important piece of your sexual state. The “bedroom eyes” are something you will need to convey during the encounter, since you want her to develop them as well, as she gets more and more comfortable with you and begins to mirror your actions and “vibe”. “Bedroom eyes” are also much more attractive than darting or fearful eyes.

10.2 Closeness, or for the nit picks “physical proximity” to her is also very important. Since you aren’t gonna be seductive or sensual standing 2 feet away from her, you need to be within 6-8 inches of her – VERY CLOSE. You slowly move into this as you sense her loosening up a bit. Of course good breath is a crucial at this point. Brush you tongue and FLOSS those back molars out so your mouth doesn’t smell like something that passed through the system of a morbidly obese 10-year-old boy. See “conversation” section for why not to say that last sentence in front of a woman, as well.

10.3 Touch her. Since touch is the first step in getting her comfortable with you as a sexual creature, you want to sneak this in slowly. A good progression is: hands, arms, lowers back, upper back, face (while whispering something to her) and hair, then thighs (hand placed but relatively stationary), and upper legs. You should NOT look at you hands as you touch her, as this alerts her to a “question” – “is it ok to touch there?” in dynamic. Also, her eyes will follow your eyes to the touching and it will be unnatural, thus questioned by her or rejected. Touching also shows that “confidence”, and may alert her to your being good with women, a fine lover, and confident lover. It demonstrates, “I am not afraid to touch women, because women like to be touched by me”, to her inner workings.Touch early on also is a HUGE time saver, if she is so uncomfortable with you touching her right from the start as to physically or verbally stop it, NOTHING you say or do, short of saving her life is gonna get her into a sexual state for you.

10.4 Tone of voice should be that of a sexual tone. You can’t run up yelling like Adolf Hitler at a nazi youth rally speech, or mumbling and stammering like Woody Allen. NOT SEXY. Not “talks like a duck”. Imagine you are talking to a former or current girlfriend in a bed and about to have sex. You soften your voice, you deepen your voice, you speak slower and with an inflection of optimism and kindness. Not your regular speaking voice but YOUR sensual sexual voice. They were right when they said “just be yourself” they just never told you what “self” to be.

Simply sliding into the sexual state will usually encompass the above behaviours inside of itself. Overall these are the medium sized chunks of sexual state, the large being “be horny”, and the small likely being to many to ever be fully understood. The small chunks may encompass micro facial expressions, body positioning, or even ESP (extra sensory perception) . Its like how knowing there are vitamins A, C, D in a fruit, and taking those things out and using them in a pill, doesn’t give you all of the undiscovered things that are inside a fruit that may be beneficial. We just KNOW A,C,D are essential for good health. It’s the same here, we know that sections 10.1,2,3 of this guide are the medium chunks of what’s essential, and we know that eating the fruit is essential (natural sexual state). Lets just live naturally rather than trying to condense it all into a pill or formula and ENJOY eating the fruit (being horny) that gives us all we need.

Koebs · 2014-06-18T08:17:44+00:00

It means that they don't want to fuck you.

Title	Sexual Vibe?
Author	iamanis
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Date	June 17, 2014 10:01 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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