Should you still practice on "HB1-4"?

beargrillz · 2011-03-20T12:32:48+00:00

The thing with less attractive girls is that they don't get hit on very much, and therefore generally have significantly lower self asteem. This means that they are really, really, REALLY easy. I have a handful of not-that-good-looking girls texting me constantly, even though I've never flirted with most of them.

You really don't have to use any game on less good looking girls. But, generally, I don't lead them on because it is harsh. Imagine you were a not-that-good-looking girl and you got hit on by someone... it would rock your world! If you then just stopped, there's a good chance that they'd be crushed.

Also, I would say that practicing on less good looking girls might make you worse at talking to hotter girls because you would be used to not having to do much and therefore bomb when any AA kicked in.

To an extent, seduction should be practiced on everyone as it is as much a state of mind as it is a set of techniques. However, it is a lethal weapon, to be used responsibly. Don't go around using people for practice if it's going to hurt their feelings.

frogma · 2011-03-20T18:01:35+00:00

I seduce everyone. I seduce 80-year-old guys at the bus stop. You just do it a bit differently (more platonic?) than you would with a girl you're interested in. Every once in a while you get girls trying shit with you when you're not actually interested (just like girls get from guys), and you just cross that bridge when you get to it.

surfnsound · 2011-03-20T13:47:47+00:00

there is no such thing as an HB 1-4. HB stands for Hot babe, and if she's a 1-4, she's not hot.

surfnsound · 2011-03-20T13:43:00+00:00

I advise against it once you are over AA. My problem is that when I get social I get really social. I flirt with everyone and this can give the wrong impression. It can make that HB you actually want think "hey, my ugly friend seems to like this guy and he seems into her too" and she'll back off.

A second problem is the "would I actually sleep with her?" hesitation. I'll be practicing away on a HB5 or HB6 that I'm not too interested in and then all of a sudden I'll realize she is hooked pretty solidly. Sometimes they will get hooked so hard that they will become sexually aggressive. (I've had girls literally shove their hands down my pants.) I can tell that if I keep escalating I'll either have to sleep with her or reject her advances. I've been told by women that I lead them on.

For the last couple of weeks I was opening any women I saw and it really helped to get over AA. But once I started getting to working on practicing my escalation it was backfiring. Once you are at that stage you have to practice on girls you (at the very least) will definitely sleep with. The point of escalation should be "keep going until she blows you out or you get laid" and that won't work if you get doubt half way through about whether or not you actually want to put your dick in.

BPhair · 2011-03-20T12:20:06+00:00

Definitely number one. You improve your social skills, and there's always the possibility of hot friends to be introduced to.

As for your concerns with number two, don't worry about it. Not much more I can say on that.

07SS · 2011-03-20T17:39:58+00:00

I always thought "hell yeah socialize with everyone". HOWEVER, I have got a clinger right now because I laid solid game on her, without really being interested... and well, this shit sucks! The girl is like a 5-6 and not terribly unattractive, but she just won't stop talking to me (text, fb chat, etc). So I guess you can, but be prepared for some poor girl who really falls victim easily to your seduction, hahaha.

CatsLikeHats · 2011-03-20T19:08:34+00:00

Ugh. Depends on your moral conscience. I did this to a girl i work with HB~4 and she went apeshit on me. Nearly killed herself when i started dating another girl

revtrot · 2011-03-21T15:30:03+00:00

This may sound mean but I by no means mean for it to sound mean. I cant even look at a girl who is below a HB7. For me they are like trees or the background of life. They are clearly there but they are not on my radar screen. Girls who are below a HB6 are not the proper practice for HB7+s

costas_0 · 2011-03-23T20:03:24+00:00

It's not practice as their self esteem and background is most probably different.

I still interact with girls that aren't much attractive, but more like platonic friendship. There are so many HB out there, just practice on anyone that's around you.

on_the_dl · 2011-03-20T12:47:06+00:00

I don't:

Practicing in the little leagues won't prepare you for the majors.
Why not just go after the hotties instead? If there are no hotties then I can read or sleep.
Ugly girls aren't necessarily easier. Sometimes they're just uglier.
I don't want to be seen with an ugly girl. I don't want to get used to hanging out with unattractive people.

Title	Should you still practice on "HB1-4"?
Author	ThirdEy3
Upvotes	12
Comments	34
Date	March 20, 2011 12:13 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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