I just discovered seddit last week and I already owe you guys a big thanks. I was beginning to think I'd lost my game but it turns out I'd just stopped playing. Just having your suggestions in the back of my mind makes me aware of what's going on and I remember what to do. I am a n00b to the PUA scene, lingo and techniques though.

So my question. When climbing the Kino ladder should it be kind of a give and take? Like I do one step and let her do another? I guess I want to know how much reciprocation and in what form I should expect it to know if I should keep moving up the ladder? Now that I'm thinking about it I have the same question about other forms of reciprocation, texting, calling, inviting to do stuff, conversational impetus... Anyone got any advice?