Thought I’d share some of my night life game tips as I’ve been a socialite for a while now and well experienced in night game. If I want to get laid, I can just go out, find some above average woman and take her home. Though at this point, I’ve probably been out on the town thousands of times, which not everybody has the will or time to do.

A lot of these will sound cliche but I will try to add a touch of originality.

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Have fun

This is essentially the only tip needed, if you are going out to get bitches, your mind set is already fucked. If you can’t have fun going out, then maybe it is not the scene for you and you should just avoid it. Being in your head sucks while at a club, everything looks grim and people look disgusting. So I always have to switch into fun mode first. Generally I will try channel an almost ontological mood, and realise how accidental/amazing/phenomenal life is. I also realise that this is my time off, and tomorrow I may have work again, so better maximise the fun. If you go out as a hungry predator, you also will have tunnel vision. You might have missed the opportunity to make friends with a local band or stumble upon a cool street rap battle.

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When out in public, try to act how you want to act, which is harder than it sounds, what if you just want to jump up and down, sit on the floor or dance outrageously by yourself. Essentially behaving like a child.It is really really hard to not give a fuck what people think and I’m not suggesting you be an annoying spaz all the time. But you should really try to act how you want, as if you absolutely do not care what anyone thinks, women also love this, it encourages them to also be themselves. I will kneel down and inspect a chair that looks good, regardless if a cocktail dress babe is sitting on it. (I’m cringing at the possibility a reader tries something like this aha) People can immediately detect genuine intentions.

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Style

Style is simple and elevates you instantly as one of the higher quality men at the venue. Dressing well takes time to learn and you will have to slowly get out of your comfort zone which is daunting. First, get quality shoes, and quality pants, make sure they will work with most of your wardrobe. The pants must fit well. Easy. Now for shirts, you can pick them up from anywhere, second hand shops are great and affordable. It will be hard at first, but you want to pick unique, perhaps colourful and semi-flamboyant shirts. You don’t always have to wear eye catching things but it definitely helps train you to get use to people noticing you and giving zero fucks.

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When you look in the mirror, you are always going to hate what you are wearing. After many years I still get self conscious when trying new outfits. In my head, I just realise how irrational the idea that I look bad is, I’m just a monkey in some clothing, nothing looks good or bad, just some made up idea of what I think looks good. I definitely don’t take advice from other people unless I ask for it. As long as you just own who you are, everything will look good. (kinda like hipsters who mismatch) Girls will open you all the time on how nice your shirts are, you can reply with “I like your facial symmetry”. If you want to go on full easy mode, buy some necklaces or other accessories. I actually enjoy buying accessories now, makes clothes shopping funner. Essentially you want to become a nonchalant peacock.

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Dancing

Half the reason I go out is to boogie, a lot of people don’t like it because they are not good at it. A lot of western countries have lost dance culture, I’ve never met an African (not african american) who can’t move. I swear, if you want to be comfortable on any dance floor ever, just take beginner salsa classes. Learn the basic steps and that is all you need, you don’t even need to know how to spin the woman yada yada. Just learn basic steps and practise them whenever you are out. Salsa is 150-250 beats per minute, it will prepare you for any music.

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Once you can move your feet, every thing above naturally followers. Listen to the music and move your body, you definitely have to get out of your head for this one. If you have woman friends or a partner, always ask if they want to practise Latin dancing, your skills will 10x overnight.

Also practise at home in front of the mirror will help you tremendously but weird and you probably have better things to do.

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Opening

I’ve been recommending for a while that you simply talk to everyone. You can just avoid approach anxiety because you are not approaching, you are just socialising. Observational intros are the easiest and I’d recommend them for beginners. If you are standing at the bar, say to the guy next to you “I need a strong beer, do you recommend that one”, say a bunch of shit and then leave. As you are walking away, you see an older lady who is most likely out with nieces for their 19th birthday, tell her you love her earrings. Walk around for a bit, notice a girl watching everyone dancing, ask her to point out who does think is the best dancer is. Ask her where she rates herself, start moving your feet, she will move hers, the rest is up to you.You do need to approach though, I still freeze up occasionally, but I think myself such the prize that not many women intimidate me.

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Though every now and then I see a lady with the hair, lips and smile that I like. Personally I just go full overt and profess my love for her, how I would kill a 1000 men and build shrines for her. Don’t recommend it aha but I have a don’t give a fuck attitude and I’ve never failed.Every now and then you will get some cold ass rejection, I’ve opened groups of 5 women who stare at me with their “the fuck you want” faces. In those moments I like to treat it as a training exercise, how much awkwardness or hostility I can withstand without breaking. I will generally overstay my welcome in a non-confronting manner and definitely not in their space. But I will stay, “Just thought I’d say hello”, look them all briefly in the eyes, “any occasion?”. I’ve had to wait up to 45 seconds before they finally break and let me in. “Oh I’m sorry, Stacey just had a break up and we were in the middle of discussing it, what did you say your name was?”

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With all my advice, there is a fine line between creep and player.

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If I’m in the mood for love making I will hit up girls who go in couples first. They do this intentionally when they are looking for men, an agreement between themselves. If they went out with everyone else, they would look like sluts. Hit them up, impress them, give them time to talk, find some other quality men for the other friend. They will organize the logistics and you will have an easy lay.

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Closing

All you have to say is “Let’s go home” once the fire in her loins is blazing. You have to slowly make that fire. Start with conversation, keep it intimate. Start applying touch. Get to a position where you are touching each other in resting positions, arm around her or legs over your lap.

Now you can go for the kiss. If you are nervous about kissing, just tell, “I’m going to kiss you now” or “Let’s kiss”, but you should just practise going in for the kiss. The engine is probably running so now you just have to up the revs. Move to somewhere semi hidden, under the shadows, go for the passionate make out with the hands all over each other, essentially as if you were laying in bed. Turn her around, put her butt up against your crotch, lean over her shoulder kiss her cheek, softly kiss her ear, tell her “Let’s go home”. Anyway, do some shit like that, pretty sure I’m just writing smut at this point.

It is all about timing and heat, like preparing a dish in the kitchen.