Starting cold approaches

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-07-28T21:11:38+00:00

Start now and continue to improve yourself along the way.

Happy-Building493 · 2025-07-28T21:25:43+00:00

Bro, if you can do it now at 20% of your potential, imagine how easy it will be at full power. Practice now and master it then it'll be lightwork when you're at your peak.

BayesianBits · 2025-07-28T21:25:51+00:00

Yes, do both.

epimpstyle · 2025-07-28T22:03:23+00:00

You have a BMI of 31.66, which is good.

Even though it says 'first class obesity,' if you actually look in the mirror, as long as you don't have a belly, you're good. I have 29.5, and of course, there's room to lose weight, but I don't care as long as I don't have a beer belly because a belly doesn't look nice.

Are you sure your weight stops you from hitting on women? I doubt it! Once you have the desired weight, another problem will appear, then something else... and this never stops, the perfect moment will never appear.

Bane_xr · 2025-07-29T10:55:48+00:00

Rephrase the question and see how you feel.

Should i wait until i get physically where i want to be, in order to start learning mental and social skills that i desire?

To me, the two are separate..

Objective_Shallot879 · 2025-07-29T00:38:45+00:00

Start right away! Just by doing your are going to learn a lot and boost your confidence. If you're into this, I am building this little tool to record cold approaches (like a voice memo) that gives feedback on flirting, talking ratio, high moments of interest, and escalation windows etc.

Still super early, but I got a first working version ready so if you'd like to test it just hit me up in DM.

LimbBisquet · 2025-07-29T02:22:28+00:00

Google Johnny Soporno.

ImpossibleWaiting · 2025-07-28T21:17:46+00:00

I'd say get into shape because it takes a lot of mental strength. Learn theory and improve your mental health while you're at it. Shouldn't take more than half a year.

Title	Starting cold approaches
Author	disaster-3321
Upvotes	12
Comments	9
Date	July 28, 2025 9:10 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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