Tinder vs Daygame. Your experience?

Captain_w00t · 2019-04-10T10:38:09+00:00

on OLD apps I got very few matches, and the ones I dated turned out to be flaky.

IRL I got surrounded by women and opportunities, both daygame and nightgame.

jacksonvilles · 2019-04-10T10:39:53+00:00

Personally, I still find night game the only worthwhile way of doing it.

With tinder, it's basically only gonna work for the male model looking dudes. it's a contest of who has the best looking face

Daygame can work, but it depends on location. Ideally a culture where it's not considered weird, or at least a place full of tourists etc. For example, most of the UK would be bad as we don't talk to strangers, but central London can be good as it's full of tourists etc. In the US, I imagine lots of places would be good for daygame since people are social and approachable.

But with night game in bars etc, approaching isn't considered THAT wierd here, and considered 'normal' in lots of other places. It's a social environment. Dark clubs can help hide ugliness too :). Plus there's alcohol to lower girls inhibitions, get them horny etc which is a big factor. She's more likely to make some bad decisions lol. So personally, I just stick to bar/club game.

constxd · 2019-04-10T15:13:13+00:00

Why not do both? IME the best way to use tinder is to just check it sporadically a few times a day for a few minutes, use your swipes, and send an opener / response to a few girls. The best advice I got from this subreddit is to match the pace of the girls you're messaging. If you message them at 4pm and they respond at 7pm the next day, don't message them 5 minutes later. Wait a day or two. Don't use silly pickup lines and don't say anything overtly sexual or you'll usually kill your chances. I've gotten more numbers by opening with things like "Hey" or "Hey how's your week going?" than anything else. Just make small talk for a bit while matching their pace and then suggest a date and ask for their number. Surprisingly enough just being normal and casual is all you have to do for most girls to give you a chance.

ImJustSo · 2019-04-10T15:32:28+00:00

I've had success with online dating, but it's kind of a chore. I'm married, so I have to go through this rigamarole that explains my relationship, etc.

In person, my wife is right there on my arm. I have a ring on. We are clearly together and married. Then I just unabashedly flirt with any woman I want. There's little explaining needed, especially if my wife starts flirting as well.

I prefer meeting people in person, but I still use online dating during my downtime. I don't feel irresistible online, but I feel like a sexy mother fucker in person and that's typically evidenced by women's responses to me for either medium of meeting them.

zincSF · 2019-04-10T18:53:41+00:00

Forget dating/hookup apps. Work on being a real person, with real value, real skills, and real interactions with women, face to face. In my opinion and recommendation. Don't expect miracles. But by following that path, you are making yourself a far, far better person in a myriad of ways. The dating app path...fuhgeddaboudit.

thepuagrinch · 2019-04-11T01:43:31+00:00

I guarantee any “hot girl” you pull off tinder would not hold a candle to a $hotgirl$ from a real approach.

Why is this even a debate ? Lol.

Guys who only use tinder are toooo pussy to approach irl.

bournit · 2019-04-21T23:13:21+00:00

My friend, that's my honest, experience based opinion :

Dating apps : delete them, they corrupt your self esteem, IN ANY CASE, if you get laid or not. I have friend that use them, get laid once ore twice per month, and then call me to explain what they did during dates : always same script, all girls are the same, all girls have the same "ex-boyfriend" problem they're trying to solve out using you to prove themselves they are still cute. In dating apps you are the choosen, not the chooser : your self esteem lowers down because the matches are not referred to you as a guy of great personality, but as a "pretty" guy. Basically, the money you don't earn with stride loose soon they're value.
Daygame : the most difficult way to get girls, but also the most rewarding. I've started months ago, and I find really difficult to get laid trought it, but, the abilities you develop in it (not hiding you d**k, having b**ls to go to the girl and make a compliment, showing your intent and so on...) : you carry those with you in the everyday life, that is the real place where you can live real - fluid - adventures, not already put in a "tinder-adventure-box" (I think at the end girls still have a strong distinction between guys they know from tinder and guys the meet in life).

Just to properly end my comment, hoping it will be useful for you, and for all the others, me included, I quote the great Mystery :

"A pickup artist must be the exception to the rule. You must not do what everyone else does. Ever." [Neil Strauss - The Game]

P.S. Can I ask you which coach are you following on Youtube for daygame?

Title	Tinder vs Daygame. Your experience?
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Date	April 10, 2019 9:54 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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