Too afraid to sexualize over text

2021-08-05T01:54:28+00:00

You gotta make a move my guy. You can’t be perfect banter is a game sometimes you lose sometimes you win. I assume you were the blue so if you were point out the fact that you like shy girls. Two don’t compare women to dogs like ever. Unless she says doggy style leave the puppy comparison out. Now if you want to use your dog a convo piece like oh I have this dog and it’s my favorite so you have any great way to figure out if she’s animal person. Everything in bants is game use what they give you make a joke or two. Coitus comes naturally when they like you and you’re confident. So unless you’re saying shove your toes in my mouth every 5 seconds you can be sexual for a few. If they respond to it great keep going but leave something to the imagination. If not then redirect and continue the convo.

Shadow__Account · 2021-08-05T17:38:18+00:00

The problem is likely that you are too scared too say anything offensive or that she doesn’t like for the fear of losing her. If this assumption is correct you need to deal with the fact that not everyone likes everyone and that you can get rejected. The counterintuitive thing is the safer you play it and the less of your personality you display the less attraction you will create. I believe these concepts are important to realize here. Its most likely your fear of rejection that needs to be addressed and not the particular expression of that in not daring to state intent or say sexual things. Now besides that as of practical advice I’d start with someone you are the least afraid of losing.

BL00DINMYEYES · 2021-08-05T01:41:34+00:00

https://www.playingfire.com/4-rules-to-flirting-over-text-introducing-the-we-frame/

bannmee · 2021-08-05T01:36:45+00:00

Subtly

CloutComputing · 2021-08-05T01:38:14+00:00

Give us an example of what you are saying and their responses. Banter is 90 improv. The other 10 navigating it to where it’s not completely sexual upfront. But you gotta tell what you say and how they respond

autogizmo · 2021-08-05T02:59:50+00:00

Make your move, brother. But if you need a little bit of help, you could check out Teddy B. He got a video about this. Here's the link to his tiktok account: https://www.tiktok.com/@realteddyb?lang=en

TheCinnamonBoi · 2021-08-05T03:06:23+00:00

You made her curious when you said you noticed something but then you said something kind of boring.m

TheSunshineMan · 2021-08-05T03:14:05+00:00

Have you fucked these girls already?

I'm assuming not.. so you're just going to hurt yourself sexualizing over text vs meeting and just having sex in person.

Texting should be about about setting up meets - not sexting.

Title	Too afraid to sexualize over text
Author	CloutComputing
Upvotes	3
Comments	22
Date	August 5, 2021 1:34 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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