Normal men communicate with women naturally. And this trait, as they call it, in quotes, 'the game,' is something natural for a man.

But what makes a person do not know how to play the game naturally?

In my view, what makes a person lose the game and not have it in their system, inside and deep down, is the presence of issues or a corrupted mental map that makes them think unnaturally and perhaps devalue themselves. Do you agree, guys?

One of the major problems that cause a man not to have a game naturally is the presence of childhood trauma. And these traumas cause a person or cause a man to look at himself as if he is less or devalue his self-worth.

Therefore, the first step a man should take before learning the game is to work on repairing the flaw he has.

One of the forms of these things is the existence or formation of an avoidant personality in him due to damaged attachment patterns. And I'll share a secret with you that I was suffering from the same problem until one day I read a book and found an exercise in it that relies on choice, and I claim that this exercise fixed what time had corrupted. https://youtu.be/z2au4jtL0O4?si=yw3uDVw3trL4m3dF

Therefore, practicing the game without fixing the inside and the fundamental flaw will backfire on you and make you in a worse state, even if you improved in the game.