Two quotes that stuck with me after reading Vin DiCarlo's The Attraction Code

HandsomeMotherfucker · 2011-09-25T20:00:18+00:00

I like the music quote. When I used to take music class and improv class, they taught to just keep going when you make a mistake, as if you didn't make a mistake. This goes well with pickup too.

Kino_PuA · 2011-09-25T21:25:23+00:00

I like the first one because not its putting you on the pedestal, not her, and thus allows your confidence to become amplified.

hefnetefne · 2011-09-26T01:19:40+00:00

My band director in high school told me, "I'd rather you play loud and wrong, than quietly and correctly."

This works SO well in life in general.

alexei954 · 2011-09-26T03:51:16+00:00

With regards to the first quote, what I find even better is to focus on: "I wonder what faces she makes when she fucks?"

youshouldknowthat · 2011-09-26T10:21:08+00:00

I just purchased this for the kindle. I found the advice to be sound, though nothing you couldn't get in seduction/seddit ( I do like his keeping it real / women are people too approach though, that gets lost in here pretty easy and it's good to get a good grounding again ). This is mostly "foot in the door"/first impression material and there's nothing wrong with that. It's not going to teach you how to keep your foot out of your mouth or avoid the dreaded "nothing to talk abouts", basic grooming, etc. It's going to teach you how to come off as a confident guy who's not needy and help you get out of a gaming mindset into the possibility of a real relationship because you started out just being a non-needy, confident version of yourself.

So here are the negs: The book assumes good conversation skills and an attractiveness level that piques initial interest, something that really shouldn't be assumed. It makes a rather dissociative jump from building you up so you're not blowing the initial meetings to imaging one-night-stands. The book gives you a very long list on what not to do in creating sexual tension, but doesn't actually succeed in conveying how actually convey it, which is fairly important because the main focus of the book is to create a sort of disinterested bad boy persona ( respect yourself first, you don't know her so make her audition for you, shrug off compliments, etc). There's a lot of gaps in his technique.

Worst, the kindle edition is like a very bad OCR scan with mangled words, misplaced sentences and paragraphs, and a fondness for random line and paragraph breaks (often mid sentence). It's like having an email conversation with a girl who randomly goes of into txt speak -- very distracting.

Still there are some thoughtful points. If $8.00 is a lot of money to you then you're probably better off just staying in these forums. If $8.00 sounds more like a tip, then it's probably worth it.

WolfInTheField · 2011-09-25T22:15:12+00:00

Upvote for the music quote. The first one has to click for you, otherwise it don't really do much.

rerereddit · 2011-09-26T13:33:20+00:00

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idomiralin · 2011-09-26T07:54:15+00:00

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Title	Two quotes that stuck with me after reading Vin DiCarlo's The Attraction Code
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Date	September 25, 2011 7:33 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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