[This update has been a long time coming..... The rules are mostly the same but we've needed to clarify matters where it concerns people coming to look for business/clients here.]

Rules / Guidelines

The primary focus of Seddit (r/seduction) is the study of human seduction. Mainly, how to integrate specific seduction and self-improvement techniques into our long-term personalities and how to succeed at one's dating goals, whether that's casual sex or a relationship.

While the discussions within Seddit focus primarily on the male seduction of females, most techniques and information referenced may be applied whether or not genders are flipped, etc.

When evaluating if a post is appropriate, the golden rule is to ask yourself: "Does this post help someone get laid or land a relationship?"

Table of Contents 1.) Appropriate Topics 2.) Common Inappropriate Posts 3.) Other Inappropriate posts 4.) Some Specific Rules Regarding Comments 5.) Celebrity / Industry AMAs

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1.) Appropriate Topics

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  • Field Reports

Great field reports focus on the techniques, mindsets and phrases you specifically used that changed the course of the night to being successful. If FR is a failure, then be sure you can point out specifically what would have turned it into a success. A good FR says "This is what I did, and why it worked".

While we appreciate functional Field Reports, often users post what are essentially diaries, giving a rundown of the night without any focus on actual techniques used. For instance:

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I went to the starbucks today, and smiled at cashier, but got too nervous to say anything so I just left.

This doesn't do anything to help someone get laid or land a relationship. Share positive value with the community, this keeps the sub filled with useful material! Remember to add the Field Report flair to your post!

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  • Links to Articles / Videos

There are tons of great blogs, vlogs, podcast, forums, and articles about seduction, and we love to stay up to date on what is out there in the community. Post these if you find them useful!

However, if the video is more about fun (like approaching while holding a dildo), it might be removed because it isn't a good example of actually helping Sedditors hook up, etc.

Also, videos of friend-zoned guys or guys bad at pickup might not be allowed if they violate the golden rule of "Does this post help someone get laid or land a relationship?"

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  • Sharing Techniques

If you have come up with your own techniques, SHARE THEM!!!. We rely on the community for new approaches and ideas, just make sure they are field tested with at least 20 approaches.

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  • Asking specific questions or basic questions

While the subreddit can become clogged with questions like "How do I approach" or "How do I kiss someone?", more advanced topics can provide a rich discussion. Examples:

  1. How do I juggle multiple people
  2. How do I bring someone home within first 45 minutes to my place?
  3. Best way to arrange a threesome?
  4. Struggling with a specific aspect of inner-game

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2.) Common Inappropriate Posts

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  • Overly Beginner Topics

Things like:

  1. How do I approach
  2. How do I get a number
  3. I'm in college, how do I talk to girls/boys
  4. How to kiss someone

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  • Physical Limitation

Great guide on Why Looks Don't Matter. This is an answered question, proven over and over. No need to re-ask it.

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  • Will this work for me? I'm depressed and/or awkward

Short answer: YES!!!

Many of the guys that have transformed their lives started as some of the most awkward, hard case, forever alone people you have ever met.

Note: this subreddit is not a substitute for therapy, which is one of the most underrated tools available to combat depression, anxiety, etc. If you haven't tried this, it's worth a try, especially methods like group therapy or cognitive behavioral therapy.

Study the sidebar and Seddit history as best you can, and if you are struggling after 3 months of serious work, then you can post about what specifically isn't working. Don't make a post until you've put in the foundational reading and work in.

And again, if it's a basic question, post at /r/askseddit.

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  • Asking for Advice

Any calls for specific situational advice with a specific female should be directed to r/askSeddit. Note that is askSEDDIT, not askREDDIT.

It exists to give you a place where sedditors can answer your questions without bogging down the frontpage of r/seduction.

The problem with these topics is they are specific to YOUR situation, while broad pickup topics are applicable to EVERY guys situation. We have 659k subscribers, and the focus of this sub is to help everyone.

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  • Rage Comics / Failure links

In short, things like rage comics, stuff about forever alone guys or friend-zoned losers are not appropriate, and will be deleted. Simply making fun of the community or guys that aren't good with women does nothing to HELP guys with women.

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  • Advertisement or Solicitations

Seddit is not an advertisement forum. Soliciting for, or advertising products and/or services, is not allowed here. And any information posted should be aimed at helping progress our member's abilities in the arts of seduction. A specific reason why the link is helpful to sedditors should be accompanied in the post or in a comment.

Links should be made to actual content, rather than advertising a book or promoting a website's homepage. Any blatant advertisement of products that cost money without prior approval from moderators can be met with deletion.

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3.) Other Inappropriate Topics

This is not the venue for:

  • Debates about vaccines, nofap, pseudoscience, or any other topic that would require wading through research papers to have a productive, informed conversation.
  • Conspiracy topics
  • Posts or comments that boil down to arguing over semantics. Like arguing that the friend-zone doesn't exist. or arguing for a new definition of a word that's already defined in the dictionary.
  • Shit-posting, rants, or circlejerk posts
  • Attacking (flaming) any member will get either a warning or a ban at the moderators discretion.
  • Calling any member a rapist, insinuating anything negative about their character because they practice seduction, or just plain name calling are all forbidden.
  • The "don't ask a fish" argument is tired. If you have a point about someone's bad advice, debunk the bad advice on its own merits.
  • Policing what dating goals a person should have is also out of bounds.
    • Judging whether or not people should want a relationship or not.
    • Judging whether or not people should go after someone who is taken or not.
    • Judging people on your sense of morality in general.
  • If you think a comment isn't helpful or breaks the rules, then report it to the moderators. Do not engage with the person posting or commenting.

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4.) Celebrity / Industry AMAs

Please contact and schedule these through moderators. We maintain a numbered list of Official AMA's, and for inclusion you must schedule with moderators.

Furthermore, AMAs are often the source of flaming and attacks from hostile subreddits, so we schedule moderators to be online for the AMA to control these. If these are not scheduled through the mod team and these attacks occur, the entire thread might get removed.

All AMA's must follow the Reddit standard:

  1. Questions are answered in real time, not hours later. Make the AMA when you will be at the keyboard.
  2. Questions must be answered on Reddit, in the thread. Not YouTube, not on a blog.
  3. Be prepared to answer any question, not just commercial ones.

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Happy hunting!