we all know practice makes perfect, so how long does it take to master the art of seduction? How long did it take you?

Turquill · 2012-06-04T05:04:08+00:00

It's not about time frame, it's about mind frame.

SinSlayer · 2012-06-04T04:22:44+00:00

It would take me a month to explain why that question doesn't even make sense.

Crabpeoples · 2012-06-04T04:58:13+00:00

i know i stated the question doesn't make sense but i just want kind of a guesstimate if you could quantify it. The reason being is cause i want to be able to settle down at the right age ya know?

HumanSockPuppet · 2012-06-04T06:09:33+00:00

Practice does not make perfect. Practice makes permanent.

Perfect practice makes perfect. Do it right, do it often, and don't worry about how others are doing in comparison. This isn't a race.

sillymallard · 2012-06-04T07:35:00+00:00

It took me 20 field reports to go from super shyness to easy number closing. However, I do feel that I'm losing my edge due to being in a relationship for several months. I'm going to make light gaming and winging a priority this Summer (no cheating). Also, I want to work on cultivating new friendships.

GnomChompsky · 2012-06-04T09:23:04+00:00

It takes however long it takes. Don't compare yourself to others, that can only ever wreck your self esteem when you don't compare well, or develop an ego when you do. Both harmful. Just walk your own path, there's really no rush.

leodoestheopposite · 2012-06-04T16:40:13+00:00

Mastery is a lifetime learning, it never stops.

Level 1: getting laid often took me a few years (2-3) of both reading and practicing

Level 2: getting so good that from seduction it became a process of creating attraction where I have a lot of friends and I escalate a few of them to sexual relationship

puaCurveBall · 2012-06-04T04:29:54+00:00

While I agree with SinSlayer:

1 month to get a solid FWB.

6 months to run a completely solid bar pickup + day2 by the book (not just lucky)

1 year to start juggling quality women

I'd say after 2 years I got just about everything I need out of the game, seeing 5 wonderful women right now and the confidence to know any girl I'm attracted to, I can give myself the best possible chance to start something with her.

disclaimer: I'm that bastard guy that learns things 5x faster than most people, so I'm an outlier

Crabpeoples · 2012-06-04T06:56:56+00:00

well yes i am really beta right now as you can tell, but the reason im hear is to get alpha as fuck. :P

Title	we all know practice makes perfect, so how long does it take to master the art of seduction? How long did it take you?
Author	Crabpeoples
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Comments	15
Date	June 4, 2012 4:06 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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