- Enter Flow State Before Arriving At The Venue – Start talking with everyone you can along the way. People on the subway. People walking down the street. Your wings should be doing the same. Ask some girls for their number along the way. Ask a girl walking down the street to go with you to the club. All you’re doing here is GETTING INTO STATE. You’re warming up and getting used to talking to people, over and over in a carefree way.

- Continue Flow State Upon Entering Venue – Make it a point to talk to at least 1 girl before even ordering a drink. Do it the moment you walk in. Don’t waste time looking for “the right girl.” Just talk to any girl. Do it just to keep the flow state going. If you can talk to 2 or 3 girls on your way to the bar, even better. All you’re doing here is bullshitting, using ridiculous lines or basically saying anything.

- Women Are Attracted To Emotions; The Emotion in Clubs is FUN – You need to be having fun from the moment you walk in. Your mindset is “I’m here to have a fucking blast.” That’s it. You’re not here to get laid. Getting laid is just an added benefit after a night of having fun. Remember that if you’re HAVING FUN, you can say pretty much anything to a girl and she will enjoy talking to you. Your goal tonight is to exhibit emotions that are more FUN than you’ve ever exhibited before.

- Walk Onto The Dance Floor Alone & Start Moving To The Beat -- Be in your own world. In that world, the only thing that matters is that you’re having FUN. You give zero fucks about what’s going on around you. You give zero fucks if people are looking at you. In fact, getting girls looking at you is the entire point of this. If this makes you nervous, pretend you’re someone else just for the night. Be James Bond, or whatever masculine character you like.

- Look Up & Find Some Cute Girls Looking At You -- There WILL BE cute girls looking at you (as long as you look like you’re having fun and don’t give a fuck). They will be smiling, giggling, laughing and giving you the eye balls. Wave at them. Do it with no hesitation. Total confidence. Total assumption. Not only wave “at” them, but WAVE THEM OVER TO YOU.” Do it like a COMMAND, not a question.

- Take Her On An Emotional Roller Coaster – What you say is irrelevant. But mix up (1) telling her about yourself, (2) complimenting her, (3) teasing her, (4) approving something she says, (5) disapproving something she says, (5) changing the subject randomly and often, (6) interrupt her, (7) act like (or even tell her), you might be leaving soon. You can mix in some questions here and there. Be genuinely interested when she’s talking and be passionate when you’re talking.

- Touch Her Right Away – Mix it up. Dancing, high fives, bump into her, arm around the shoulder. In and out. In and out. Touch and pull away. Bump and move. You’re a spontaneous rollercoaster of fun. When she walks over to dance, hold out your arms for an exaggerated hug, like she’s your best friend you haven’t seen in two years.

- Focus on Multiple Girls – Give your attention to multiple girls at the beginning. Don’t focus in on one too fast. Let them work for your attention. You’re having too much fun to give her your complete attention anyway. Let them compete over you.

- Pick Your Favorite Girl – At some point identify the one you want. Try to make it the hottest one. Don’t limit yourself. Stretch your comfort zone. Talk to the hottest one as if you were talking to some old lady. Old ladies are easy to talk to because you don’t give a shit about impressing them. Do the exact same thing here. Get deep into a topic. Ask her a couple deep questions. You can ask them unprompted. Just ask something deep and unexpected. After she answers, you can compliment if appropriate, but then go back to the playful banter of the Emotional Rollercoaster. Back and forth. Deep and then light. Get those emotions sizzling.

- Seed The Pull – Plant the idea of some cool reason she’d enjoy being at your place that doesn’t have to do with sex. It can be anything that comes up in conversation. The point is simply to mention your place and something interesting that she would like. For more info on how to Seed The Pull, check out this video.

- Lead Her Around The Venue – Grab her hand and take her around. Lead. Do it with total assumption. Show her the fun and then take her along. Girls ALWAYS follow the fun.

- Get her CAPTIVATED in Your Masculine Bubble of Attraction – Get her away from her friends (even a few feet away is good). Start showing her your Sexual Frame. Slow Down your voice and body movements. Spread out. If you can find a sofa, extend your arms out along the back. Man-spread your legs. Take up space. Sit close to her. Keep up push and pull of deep conversation mixed with the light, playful emotions of the roller coaster.

Get my free guide to creating a dominant Sexual Frame here.

- Go For The Kiss – (Optional depending on the situation) -- You’re talking less and talking slower. At this point in the attraction, she will usually start talking a lot. Talking a lot about random shit MEANS she wants you to kiss her. So wait until she’s right in the middle of saying something and then interrupt her by leaning in and putting your lips onto her lips. Hold. Release. If she didn’t resist the kiss, go for a second. If this is a situation where she may start making out with you, start applying the tongue on kiss three.

- Go For The Pull – (You can do this even if there was no Kiss step) -- Suggest getting out of there. Maybe it’s too loud and you two need a drink in a quiet place. Maybe it’s closing time. Mention the Seed Reason as well. If she’s been sitting close enough for your bodies to be touching. If she’s leaning in toward you. If she’s talking a lot. Highly likely she will go home with you. If she drops the “we’re not having sex tonight shit test,” agree, take her by the hand, walk to the door, order an uber and get the hell on.

That’s pretty much it. Now it’s highly likely you got laid, and you had fun. Bonus.

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