What are all the frames ?

norwegiandoggo · 2025-01-25T10:47:51+00:00

Frames are the underlying assumptions of the conversation.

There are no fixed number of frames. They are endless. It never stops. You can frame anything into anything. How you word things sets the frame.

StrikingImportance39 · 2025-01-25T10:51:53+00:00

It is a term from psychology.

It’s like “mental lens” through which we perceive the reality, situation.

In the context of dating, specifically in your example.

Two people interacting with each other can be seen as seller and buyer. A seller is the person who tries to “sell” or convince other person about his ideas, his beliefs, his worldview. And the buyer either accept his ideas or dismiss as false or something he doesn’t need at this moment.

In a marketing psychology a buyer usually is the one who holds all the power. Because he is the one who has the last say and can make the deal happen. This is because a buyer often has more choices to choose from.

And therefore, for this reason, u always want to have a “buyer” frame in the dating context.

epimpstyle · 2025-01-25T11:52:58+00:00

It is a concept that says that if you want something from another person, you have a weak frame and you will act in a way that you think the other person will like you, it will appear the "needy" attitude. When you talk to a girl and you want her to be your gf or you want her phone number - you have automatically a weak frame (you are the buyer in this example) but now you know that it is not a nice image if you become "needy" so you can avoid this thing to happen by holding a strong frame.

However, this has an effect ONLY if the girl likes you at some level otherwise it has no effect.

For example, if you are dancing in the street, a girl who finds you attractive will say, "Wow, he's so funny/cool," she might dance with you in the street (she will enter your frame - she will chase you), but a girl who doesn't like you will say: "He's such a jerk! He doesn't see he's a clown" - that girl doesn't find you attractive, she doesn't want anything from you, so she'll say whatever she wants, she doesn't care what happens next because she doesn't need anything from you.

Wing_Inevitable · 2025-01-25T13:37:57+00:00

What are all the frames ?

Sadly people have lives or someone might sit down and give you that answer.

I will just give you an example so you sorta get the scope of what you asked.

A frame of her ideas - it could vary form “You don’t exist in her world” “You are irrelevant” “You are a bitch” “you smell bad” to “You are hot” “Mid but has potential” “I really want to fuck his brains out”

A frame in vibing - from “We aren’t vibing” “he is dull” to “this is fun” “I really like him”

And that is just an example where I skipped 70 things cuz I don’t have the time to answer or well mental capacity to think of every fucking thing she could think.

So YOU AIN’T getting that answer.

Like buyer and seller frame her chasing you etc. what are all the frames?

Buyer seller and her chasing - ain’t frames. They are states. They are literally emotions framed through logic. And they mean the same thing btw.

She wants to impress you - she is chasing. basically.

The prize frame is a frame (thus the FRAME in the name) - You are viewed as the prize.

She could have frames stoping her from chasing (example “I don’t impress short guys”). She could have frames helping her chase (example “The prize frame”) But that doesn’t make her chasing a frame.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-01-25T15:26:39+00:00

When I come into the comments to give you an answer, the frame is that I know what I am talking about.

So two things can happen,
1. You think I'm full of shit and then you challenge my frame. These are called shit tests
2. You accept my frame and accept that I know what I'm talking about.

The other guys gave you a good definition. I just wanted to add an example.

EetinAintCheetin · 2025-01-25T16:48:13+00:00

Adopt the standard woman frame: “You have to prove to me that you are good enough to even talk to me” and it will all be good.

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-01-25T19:07:52+00:00

A frame is the lens or perception of the scenario. Given that there’s basically unlimited frames. Common ones though are power frames, analyst frame, intrigue frame, prize frame.

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2025-01-26T08:21:04+00:00

Just go out and meet people instead of this bullshit thinking. It's not hard.

Title	What are all the frames ?
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Date	January 25, 2025 10:40 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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