What did I do wrong on this "date"?

Exmerus · 2022-04-09T20:01:18+00:00

She implied it was a date and you insecurely replied. You could've said "no" and would have been a better answer. You could have tried to kiss her anytime and you didn't. Maybe she was horny, someone texted her and decided to go with that guy, since you seemed to be too afraid to make a move.

What did you do wrong? You were doubtful and overthought, instead of making a move after several signals.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-04-09T20:11:55+00:00

She was brave and vulnerable, and she showed you clearly that she wants you.

You, on the other hand, acted like you weren't interested

Frze512 · 2022-04-09T21:45:36+00:00

Bro I’ve been in this same situation w a girl I met from insta, but I had her all over me. I didn’t say any bs about a date, stating the obvious, and I made sure to tease her while we were seated in the cinema and during the movie, your date did this w you.

Where you fucked up is after she literally guided your hand to her pussy, you froze. If you weren’t comfortable fingering her, you should’ve caressed her more, around her thigh area n shi, maybe kissed her n go from there

She obviously went on her phone cause you were rejecting her advances. L date

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-04-09T23:46:44+00:00

You acted insecure and like you didn’t know what you wanted. Girls don’t like that. You always need to know what you want, you cannot doubt, you can’t be like “I don’t know if I want thai to be a date”, it makes you come across as insecure. If you can’t quickly decide what you want she will make the decision for you and it won’t be the romantic one, but the platonic one.

Her: “Do you want this to be a date?”

You: “Girl, you ain’t ready to handle me as a date”

Her: “I bet i can”

You: “Oh yeah? On a scale of 1 to 10 how good of a kisser are you?”

Her: 10

You: “Let’s see if that’s true, close your eyes briefly” (go for it before she even has time to say anything)

You need to be confident, bold, sure of yourself, don’t show you doubt yourself for even one sec, if she says she is not a great kisser? just tease her like: “See? You wanna be a woman but you ain’t ready yet”

Prestigious_List5878 · 2022-04-10T01:55:44+00:00

What did you do wrong? Nothing, you didn't do anything which is what you did wrong, she put your hand on her "area" and you let it sit there....

I think you answered your own question in your explanation. Next time, if there is another time like this, do something, make a move.

atomant88 · 2022-04-10T04:03:56+00:00

mistake 1; the cinema. mistake 2; not making it clear that it was a date. mistake 3; didnt escalate in the theatre.

seems like a troll post. no one is this dumb.

putcoolusernamehere · 2022-04-10T00:18:43+00:00

"Anyway long story short, I get this girl I dont know well to come with me. Its just the two of us. During the movie I jokingly say "This seems kinda like a date" and she literally says "Well do you want it to be?" I said idk and she just giggled."

Don't say idk. Say, "a date" confidently and while keeping good eye contact.

incognito3107 · 2022-04-10T07:21:05+00:00

Lol, she was hot, mood was perfect and you just did nothing. She felt offended.

Title	What did I do wrong on this "date"?
Author	Frze512
Upvotes	2
Comments	25
Date	April 9, 2022 7:43 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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