What exactly are we losing when we get rejected?

iwftmir · 2021-07-30T10:25:23+00:00

i think guys give themselves a hard time sometimes as they wrongly believe that there's something they could have said to make her not reject him

LoutraData · 2021-07-30T10:36:10+00:00

We lose ego, because we see rejection as a judgement of all ourself. Obviously it's not a good approach, we need see rejection as a signal of incompatibility or a sign that the girl don't want to think about relationships a this moment not as a judgement of us

LandSharkRoyale · 2021-07-30T11:34:43+00:00

A small town sucks though you can only get rejected so many times

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-07-30T11:30:06+00:00

The key is to always talk to multiple girls, so rejection doesn’t bother you

These-You-2124 · 2021-07-30T13:14:47+00:00

The voice in your head that tells you that you are going to fail is the reason you do. You need that failure in order to succeed. Not just in seduction, but in life. Just ask Thomas Edison…. “I haven’t failed, I just found ten thousand ways that do not work”. Keep looking at your game from thirty-thousand feet. Improve, and use those lessons to win. The worst thing that will happen is that they will tell you “no”. It is their loss, not yours.

Most-Consequence-441 · 2021-07-30T10:56:58+00:00

We need to realise that we are all human's that make mistakes. Don't be hard on yourself. Get hobbies and keep growing.

Chicagoj1563 · 2021-07-30T15:00:19+00:00

If you focus on the process there is no downside to rejection. They are all just social interactions, none of them are a big deal, and each one makes you a little better socially. Just focus on the win, put a smile on your face, and open your next set. Keep everything positive. Guys get frustrated and quit cold approach because they don't do what I just described.

Wildriftskin · 2021-07-30T11:57:50+00:00

pride

2021-07-31T04:07:08+00:00

I’m not afraid of rejection at all, never have been.

What I’ve realised recently that in the past when I thought I was afraid of being rejected was either because I had a crush on her and was scared of coming to the realisation that it was unrequited but in the context of cold approach, I was not afraid of being rejected, I was afraid of making her feel uncomfortable or making a public humiliation of myself.

I think I’m correct in projecting this to how most men are as well. Men just want to be themselves, relaxed, calm. Be able to go up to a woman, chat her up and get rejected without anyone feeling bad or her feeling like she’s unsafe to do so. Anything other than this is just a great interaction between a man and a woman.

Title	What exactly are we losing when we get rejected?
Author	FalconVita
Upvotes	57
Comments	22
Date	July 30, 2021 9:26 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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