What Methods Do You Follow?

Nervous-Arrogance · 2026-07-14T11:31:24+00:00

I went from Mystery Method, which was very robotic

Then whilst doing a lot of Inner Game stuff by Hypnotica and focussing on confidence, sexual confidence, authenticity, etc, I stopped Mystery Method as I realized it was too robotic, but needed it initially.

Then just lots of playing with various other things, and seeing what worked and what didn't. More like "lets see what happens when I do this", instead of treating it like a "rule".

Then did some of the OG Ross Jeffries stuff, to stop ruminating on the past and to learn how to learn.

The only rule I follow now is: "Do not build images in my head of what is going to happen and just stay present"

I also still try and make a point of talking to at least one random person a day with small talk, to keep them social muscles from building cobwebs.

Also, have done improv classes and exposed myself to as many social events as possible, as well as going out both with wingmen and solo, to try all this stuff.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-07-14T12:14:03+00:00

I have my own method:

1. Safety: As a stranger, you are first evaluated as a potential threat. You have to get her to lower her defences enough to hear you out. That's why I approach with a plausible excuse that is not hitting on her. I go indirect. I try to seem safe and friendly, and like a normal socially capable upstanding guy. That's during the day. If it's night-time I typically approach on dance floor by dancing.

2. Date: I don't flirt much. One of the first things I do is try to get her on a date. That could be an instant date / instant "hangout" which is actually a date, or if she doesn't have time now - I'll get her number and ask her out later. The date is coffee for daytime, or drinks for evening. This is how I show my intentions.

3. From the date, invite her home: Build more trust, and ensure the vibes are good before inviting her home at some point midway through the date.

4. Once home, escalate to sex: Get her to the bedroom and ask her what kind of sex she likes. Talk about boundaries, safe sex, preferences etc. Then get on with it.

CumputerInside · 2026-07-14T20:00:03+00:00

Bro, I literally dressed up like a gay man as a social experiment just to see what would happen. Treat your world like a video game. You can be any character you want at any point. Trying to be yourself isn’t how to do it just be. And in that moment, you can be anything.

There’s no single technique that’s gonna work on different women different things work for different people in different situations. You have to be able to look at a situation and know how to interact with it and the people that are also interacting with it. You also don’t know their state of mind and what they’re going through so lighthearted fun joking mannerisms and chat usually work for me.

Be fluid be able to change any given moment. Think like Robin Williams or Jim Carrey. You don’t have to be as excessive but having character and making people smile is always going to win in my book.

ArkansasDood · 2026-07-14T11:53:38+00:00

Marni the wing girl

rocksos · 2026-07-14T12:27:24+00:00

tried mysterymethod, then tried gambler and todd V. About to try someone new. Just looking for ideas

Imscubbabish · 2026-07-14T21:50:36+00:00

I dont even have a method. I just talk..I am told I am funny I dont see it.

Confident_Web3110 · 2026-07-16T03:27:24+00:00

Mark manson and zan perion. I think mark manson is the most genuine one of all

silver54 · 2026-07-14T23:28:07+00:00

none, you take bits and pieces and field test all of it to see what’s real and what isn’t

then youll know who the legit posters here are (there are only a handful)

Electric-aura3000 · 2026-07-14T17:42:10+00:00

None. Women aren't robots that will follow your routine.

Title	What Methods Do You Follow?
Author	Amos_Archon
Upvotes	16
Comments	39
Date	July 14, 2026 11:23 AM UTC (5 days ago)
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