when do you think you will settle down ??

ters19 · 2014-09-30T14:23:53+00:00

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jumpingjupiters · 2014-09-30T13:49:30+00:00

I think I will settle down. Pickup is no longer interesting for me. The woman I found through pickup is.

Tombstone31 · 2014-09-30T14:24:41+00:00

You mean gamble my financial security on the flight of fancy of a woman?

Yeah...no.

2014-09-30T14:01:59+00:00

I would like to find a woman in her mid twenties when I am in my mid to late thirties and do the family thing.

foxanon · 2014-09-30T15:19:20+00:00

Well I found me a smart, beautiful, sexy girl who's awesome as shit. We'll see how this goes.

fuckboystrikesagain · 2014-09-30T16:22:34+00:00

Approx. 6.357777 years

throwingorgy · 2014-09-30T15:08:28+00:00

You know what's funny about this question? I'm a bit older (37 next week) and I'm on this sub because I'm picking up again despite being married for 9 years.

My wife and I both date other people and we're learning a lot from these seduction tips. The amount of self-help stuff that is worthwhile to read/hear on this sub is awesome but in a relationship you have to go well beyond what's in here and there is plenty of good material for that as well (edit see http://www.reddit.com/r/relationships).

I'm glad that you're thinking about it... this is a great diversion... a good way to feel comfortable in your own skin but it could also be detrimental to you. A lot of what this sub does is teach men to be alpha... to never be vulnerable and to never speak of emotions but those are all things you need to do to develop a strong bond with someone worthwhile. It's not just about the sex and having a good time on week ends... life is also about long term goals and the larger picture. I mean if you bust your budget on drinks all week end long you won't have that sailboat or that cottage you'd really appreciate when you turn 40.

BTW my wife has a boyfriend on the side... I just broke up with my girlfriend but I have another date tomorrow night with this blonde with blue eyes with great legs. My wife and I love one another, have kids, a house and a retirement plan together yet we have fun just as much. We worked hard to build our relationship to what it is though... and yeah... the seduction game is great to get started but you'll want to continue your development past that.

PS: We were 20 and 22(me) when we first started dating.

Whipstarz · 2014-09-30T14:28:52+00:00

Yes that's in my plans. I want to have my career set in motion first before I try to marry. I need to know that I have a financial security so when I add that special someone to my life I can support them.

Diece · 2014-09-30T17:03:43+00:00

probably never, there is no such things as security in my life.

CassiusTheDog · 2014-09-30T17:12:03+00:00

Woman for life, absolutely. Marriage and family? Nah, there's more fun shit to do out there than that.

SouthpawTheLionheart · 2014-10-01T02:23:53+00:00

Whoever dates me.

rosickness12 · 2014-09-30T18:00:48+00:00

No. 31 and haven't found it so guessing peak season is over. I won't quit. I'll learn from past mistakes. But in the end, may not be able to do it.

DaygameCoach · 2014-09-30T15:48:05+00:00

yes. I've been in this relationship a few years.

folderol · 2014-09-30T21:41:41+00:00

I did that when I was 32. She knew I wasn't having any part of kids but figured I'd change my mind. Been divorced about 5 years now. I suppose I could settle down again at some point but I really have to wonder what the point is and if it's worth the hassle.

KarmaMerchant · 2014-09-30T22:20:20+00:00

I just discovered this thread, and I haven't done much pickup in my life, but I do have a GF, she loves to travel with me, Has an degree in engineering, has a good job, Can fly a plane, is a nymphomaniac, Has Pretty face Small Waist Big Boobs.

So should i just settle?

Edit:- I am 100% Serious

My_Fox_Hat · 2014-09-30T23:38:00+00:00

As my intimate interaction with any girl is limited to one LTR during my first two years of high school, and my plans to improve game and looks to get more action, if I'm successful, I'd say early thirties, I'm 18 now

reduser80 · 2014-10-01T02:45:51+00:00

I'm currently targeting age 37 or so.

Title	when do you think you will settle down ??
Author	ganimides
Upvotes	29
Comments	43
Date	September 30, 2014 1:31 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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